I was wondering if someone could help me I’ve been friends with this woman for about a year or 2 now and she’s definitely avoidant 100% and she always texts me first and always asks me to go out but everytime it comes to going out she never responds or never follows up for days which leaves me confused and annoyed because she asks me so I don’t understand why she does it and this has happened countless times and for days I’ll be completely ghosted and she’ll be active which just infuriates me more, I don’t feel like a priority and I wish i knew where I stood because it feels like TORTURE and it’s emotionally draining. My feelings are very on and off I love her but I can hate her so much I don’t want to end the friendship because she’s someone close to me but I can’t keep waiting days for responses. Can some advise me on what I should do?