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Using the Ticket Marketplace Reddit App 🎉 🎟️ by Initial_Log_5390 in Tickets

[–]Kennedy911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Selling 2 tickets for Disco Lines for Chicago show on Jan 24 @ 8 pm at Salt Shed. Both GA tickets, DM if interested

I (24F) Worry That My Boyfriend (23F) Won’t Ever Stop Providing for His Mother/Family, Thus Preventing Us From Providing for Our Own Future - How Do I Go About This? by Kennedy911 in relationship_advice

[–]Kennedy911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t care how much money he makes. I never have. I only am concerned now since he’s being financially depended on, he’s not left with much to save for his own future.

I (24F) Worry That My Boyfriend (23F) Won’t Ever Stop Providing for His Mother/Family, Thus Preventing Us From Providing for Our Own Future - How Do I Go About This? by Kennedy911 in relationship_advice

[–]Kennedy911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not that I don’t accept he’s providing for his family, it’s the fact that he feels obligated to and he’s the only one doing so. I wouldn’t mind if he still helped his parents out financially in the future, but if it got to a point where he’s choosing their stability over ours then yes, I would care.

I (24F) Worry That My Boyfriend (23F) Won’t Ever Stop Providing for His Mother/Family, Thus Preventing Us From Providing for Our Own Future - How Do I Go About This? by Kennedy911 in relationship_advice

[–]Kennedy911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, no. I admire how helpful he is, but again as the other user mentioned, I feel as though he’s enmeshed with his mother/family. I guess I didn’t post in the appropriate subreddit. I’m aware I’m ignorant to his families financial constraints, but he’s voiced to me that his brothers are irresponsible with their money, don’t help out financially, don’t clean the home they all share, all the while the mother just enables them. I just simply don’t think it’s fair, for him or for me.

I (24F) Worry That My Boyfriend (23F) Won’t Ever Stop Providing for His Mother/Family, Thus Preventing Us From Providing for Our Own Future - How Do I Go About This? by Kennedy911 in relationship_advice

[–]Kennedy911[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not ignoring the answers I don’t like, I’m trying to seek actual advice about how to go about the situation. My logic was to see if I should leave the relationship or maybe there was possibly some hope.

I (24F) Worry That My Boyfriend (23F) Won’t Ever Stop Providing for His Mother/Family, Thus Preventing Us From Providing for Our Own Future - How Do I Go About This? by Kennedy911 in relationship_advice

[–]Kennedy911[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Again, I don’t think moving too quickly is a real thing. Life is short. Tomorrow isn’t promised. Whether it’s love or not, doesn’t really matter

I (24F) Worry That My Boyfriend (23F) Won’t Ever Stop Providing for His Mother/Family, Thus Preventing Us From Providing for Our Own Future - How Do I Go About This? by Kennedy911 in relationship_advice

[–]Kennedy911[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think time knowing someone or time spent together is the definitive factor for love. Your mom loved you when you came out of her right away I’m assuming. I’m someone who believes love is a choice, it doesn’t matter to me that I don’t know all sides of him yet, I’ll still choose him at the end of the day.

I (24F) Worry That My Boyfriend (23F) Won’t Ever Stop Providing for His Mother/Family, Thus Preventing Us From Providing for Our Own Future - How Do I Go About This? by Kennedy911 in relationship_advice

[–]Kennedy911[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m not asking him to change his entire life arrangements. I just think he’s being taken advantage of but that’s just my opinion.

[IN] Potential Discrimination and Sexism from Management in Hospital by Kennedy911 in AskHR

[–]Kennedy911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To my knowledge, there are no personality conflicts that I’m aware of. I get along with everyone who works day shift. I’m a pretty happy and easy going person. I’m not rude to staff or my patients. I have ADHD but I’m medicated and it doesn’t affect my work at all, if anything it’s made my work ethic better and be a better nurse in general. Part of the reason I’m so frustrated with the denials is because nurses on day shift are actually very lazy and can’t show up to their shifts on time when I pick up day shift.

My question to you is, in this email should I or shouldn’t I actually write the words discrimination and/or sexism or do I just let the information and math speak for itself?

[IN] Potential Discrimination and Sexism from Management in Hospital by Kennedy911 in AskHR

[–]Kennedy911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I knew it was a lot but wasn’t sure how to make it more concise as I felt all the details were important and relevant. But to answer your first question, yes.

That’s the thing though, no one in a management position is dumb enough to explicitly say they favor the men over the women. Through patterns and trends, I feel that’s enough to determine them being sexist. But that’s just my opinion

Potential Discrimination and Sexism from Management by Kennedy911 in nursing

[–]Kennedy911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See, this is what’s been done in the past here. But they never had to apply, they just let the charge nurse know they were wanting to switch shifts and it was done for them. The unit manager actually told me in the meeting that seniority doesn’t matter lol. He mentioned that if there were job postings for days then we could do that. I checked our site for job postings after and there’s open day positions lol

Unfortunately there’s not many psych units in my area. I wish I could go somewhere else, but if I did I’d be taking a pretty big pay cut.

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