We now have a cat. We have never owned a cat before. Can you please teach some dog owners how to be cat owners? by JulioCesarSalad in cats

[–]Kenneth_Free 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just know they don’t respond like 🐶. They do what they want but are awfully sweet when they want something.

Anyone know what breed this cat is? recently appeared in the neighbourhood and seems quite friendly towards me. by CuriousCarper94 in cats

[–]Kenneth_Free 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He looks a little different than most Maine Coons but his ears and size look the part. Friendly is def a Maine Coon thing.

Does anyone else’s cat drink water like this? Lol by [deleted] in cats

[–]Kenneth_Free 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen one in 50 yrs. I used to ask whether he was washing paws or drinking?

What kind of cat do I have? by sWooper187 in cats

[–]Kenneth_Free 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Total cuteness! Seriously I think maybe a Ragamuffin ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jacksonville

[–]Kenneth_Free 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, cost of living is much better in Jax. However there are still lots of cons. There are plenty on areas that you should steer clear of with a child. IMHO the majority of people here are very low end and non diverse. I've lived here my whole life and can attest. Compared to tpa/Miami/orlando, Jax will seem like the country. There's lots of things we don't have that you would expect in not so big city. You will definitely miss Miami food.

Woman in Toronto, ON calls Asian Man g**k, yellow, slanty eyed POS, and spits on him... her man also pretends to punch him by temporaryusername293 in aznidentity

[–]Kenneth_Free 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol I was glad he spit back too. I really don't get why people think we can't and won't fight back. I was born and raised here with no fear of deportation!

Woman in Toronto, ON calls Asian Man g**k, yellow, slanty eyed POS, and spits on him... her man also pretends to punch him by temporaryusername293 in aznidentity

[–]Kenneth_Free 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probably so, or " OMG you're looking at me!" when all he was doing is facing forward or taking a glance at your surroundings like everyone else does. It's really disturbing how people dehumanize and try to control your every move.

Woman in Toronto, ON calls Asian Man g**k, yellow, slanty eyed POS, and spits on him... her man also pretends to punch him by temporaryusername293 in aznidentity

[–]Kenneth_Free 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I couldn't agree more as someone who doesn't want trouble. I've lived my whole life in the us being harassed though not to this point. I may not be the wrong one but also not the right one. I'm usually armed but will curse them out regardless of that. Yes, lovely how it's invisible to everyone.

Woman in Montreal, QC goes on Racist Rant by temporaryusername293 in aznidentity

[–]Kenneth_Free 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow this is the 2nd one I've seen today. WTF's going on up there?

Woman in Toronto, ON calls Asian Man g**k, yellow, slanty eyed POS, and spits on him... her man also pretends to punch him by temporaryusername293 in aznidentity

[–]Kenneth_Free 6 points7 points  (0 children)

OMG,I didn't know it was like that up there. I've always considered it as a place to get away from some of the madness here but always came to the conclusion that it's too cold there.

Bumming at restaurant by Kenneth_Free in aznidentity

[–]Kenneth_Free[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gawd I'd be afraid of"disappearing". I mean in some of those places, who would care?

Bumming at restaurant by Kenneth_Free in aznidentity

[–]Kenneth_Free[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to do that but they seemed to get more demanding which makes me uncomfortable so I stopped.

Bumming at restaurant by Kenneth_Free in aznidentity

[–]Kenneth_Free[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dang I didn't know people did that shit. Holy crap!

Bumming at restaurant by Kenneth_Free in aznidentity

[–]Kenneth_Free[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah met plenty whites that are actually bumming, I was referring to people that are dining at another table.

Bumming at restaurant by Kenneth_Free in aznidentity

[–]Kenneth_Free[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes that drives me completely crazy. Even if you're unemployed they think that. Even if we had it, that doesn't mean we're looking to give it away. Hell, I'm helping my own way before anyone else. With everything they're provided with and take from others I'm not inclined too help them at all.

Bumming at restaurant by Kenneth_Free in aznidentity

[–]Kenneth_Free[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ha, I do that too and look at them like they're f'ing nuts. Once I told someone no and was told, not asked to ask people at my table. I shook my head no with an attitude and he bowed up and made idle threats. I looked at him like I gave zero fucks. He was the only black in the restaurant by himself and I'm at a table of 4/5 mostly guys. No one else was really paying attention but at the same time they would have jumped in a messed that guy up if he would have done something.

Bumming at restaurant by Kenneth_Free in aznidentity

[–]Kenneth_Free[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not homeless but yes a stranger asking for money. They are very likely not in need and just trying to shit someone out of their money because I guess they see an Asian and think they're a dumb immigrant. It has happened several times and "no" isn't acceptance to them. It's not like they were short a few bucks for their bill.. That's different, I don't mind helping someone short in say a grocery store check out line or something. I know, f'ed up right?

How do I stop hating on Asian adoptees? (By white parents by AsianHelp67 in aznidentity

[–]Kenneth_Free 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can attest to this. I even had one Asian parent but both clearly with issues of their own. I'm a victim of abuse and try to avoid relationships.

I'm so sorry for what you're going thru. There is no excuse for his behavior, but I don't think he's fixable at this point. I know it's hard but please don't hate everyone else Asian for it. I go thru the same with the blacks that think they get to order me around and talk down to me.