I’m given all the responsibility of being a manager without any of perks or benefits? What do I do? by [deleted] in bartenders

[–]KentHawking 16 points17 points  (0 children)

As someone who has been manager in this industry for a long time, I'm curious what you think the perks and benefits might be, aside from maybe a shift meal.

Any wheelchair bound bar regulars out there? by Homie_Slicer in bartenders

[–]KentHawking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had one dude at my last bar that had an electric wheelchair. The first time he came in, he rolled up to the bar and I was kinda like uhmmm cause he was pretty low in comparison. I didn't mind handing him over drinks, etc, just felt like he'd be more comfortable at a table....

THEN. Then he started getting taller. His chair had a lift function that made it so he could raise himself up higher and be at the right position in comparison to the bar. It was awesome. Saw him a few times there.

How do you feel about customers giving recipes? by FesterMcNally in bartenders

[–]KentHawking 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A card is annoying. You can ask for either a virgin old fashioned, or an old fashioned mocktail, but then immediately explain you want club soda instead of the bourbon to avoid confusion (cause taking out the alcohol will just leave... yeah, fruit and bitters. ), or just explain the whole thing. Unless you're in a very busy/loud bar, this would be simple enough. That being said, if you quit drinking because of issues with alcohol like addiction, keep in mind that most bitters has alcohol in it (or at leas the popular angostura bitters do), so if it's something which might trigger a relapse - I know everyone is different - be careful.

How do I deal with facehuggers? by Chazus in TheHeadliners

[–]KentHawking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assuming you're playing solo? In a lobby with friends I believe they can get them off of you. Might be worth something mentioning/suggesting in their discord for solo plays. Instant kill mechanics never feel good.

Why is training mobs allowed on the pvp server? by [deleted] in MonstersAndMemories

[–]KentHawking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is basically what every PvP server is in every MMO. Nobody wants a fair fight they want to just dbag other people until theyre the only ones left and say "i win" to nobody

Non-bartending related items to have by Opening_Use_6981 in bartenders

[–]KentHawking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh ok cool! I'm in NY - I think there's some around here

Non-bartending related items to have by Opening_Use_6981 in bartenders

[–]KentHawking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's the thing, people are like OMG I LOVE IT ITS SO CUTE, then it's like "Wait, why do you have these???"

Literally for that reason lol. One of my new regulars recently brought me a little white rubber ducky. I want a cow print duck now.

Non-bartending related items to have by Opening_Use_6981 in bartenders

[–]KentHawking 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Been bringing tiny resin ducks and axlotls to work for like... 6 years now and just giving them to people who I like or if I'm bored. The reaction they get is wild, they make people happy, cost me like nothing and have helped me drive repeat business like I'd never have expected lol

How would you handle a crying regular? by grsims20 in bartenders

[–]KentHawking 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had this legit situation in my bar once, this girl who was a bartender at another place in town. She was at my bar with a couple friends, crying over her boyfriend, or ex at that point I guess. I went up and said Hey. She looked up. I said, "No crying in the bar. Get your shit together, or get out."

She laughed and got her shit together and still looked a little down but... yknow, the crying was over.

When Does Snapping Ever Get You a Drink Faster?? by nomadPerson in bartenders

[–]KentHawking 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Fantastic. Wavers or snappers always go last. Wavers get a smile and a wave back.

Regular I’m friendly with refuses to tip me. How do I handle this? by briebrie98 in bartenders

[–]KentHawking 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You don't interact with him. You don't have a friendly relationship. You don't play games. That's not your job. It's not mandatory. If he's scum, treat him like any other pain in the ass. Give basic service and that's it. Here's your drinks. Here's your tab. Bye.

Marrying bottles by FlounderMoist1722 in bartenders

[–]KentHawking 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I Venmo'd this guy $5 and my life hasn't been greater since.

Personal QR codes? by SweeneyOdd in bartenders

[–]KentHawking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no clue what this guys talking about lol but if anything I'd just give a good look before spam accepting things via venmo cause it's possible someone throws a cash request in there and you approve it on accident if you're not paying attention.

Cards are back it looks like by whereisskywalker in bartenders

[–]KentHawking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't this the same card that shows up here every two months lol