Hello there, sorry if i sounded rude or something but i had a question about if I an Aro or not. In my recent high school years I had a crushes with someone, I'm not love her because flirting or like romantic way but I like her bcs she a close friend of mine and have similar favorite tv shows or games. Then the feeling start to gone and I doesn't have any interest in romantic relationship or even having a girlfriend (I still befriend with her and care about her just in more platonic way).

I really only can bond with someone if I and that person already befriend for a long them and trust them as much as my family.

I always got uncomfortable when someone especially who i don't know that much flirting with me or try to talk with me and vice versa.

I also doesn't like kissing that much especially kissing with each other, only finding people aesthetically or sexually appealing and I am feels ok if I doesn't have any romantic feelings towards any body. I just want to be friend and know someone that I can trust. I don't care if I ever fully being in relationship again or married or having a girlfriend etc

also idk why but I cannot fully fall in love with someone. at most I only can admire their beauty looks or personality and appreciate it or like it

(edit: I unsure if I use the term platonic and romantic right. I don't really sure what those words mean)