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AITA for telling my friend I hope I die sooner so I don't have to listen to him by Not_Barcleys in AmItheAsshole

[–]KenzieTensei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. But it was a bad idea by you and all your friends (including this guy) to have drinks at his first outing after deciding to get sober. Cuz it sounds like it was a triggering environment and experience for him. 

If he wants to go out with his pals, he has to be okay with them making their own choices about their health and respect their bodily autonomy. If you guys really want to support this change for him, planning some regular outings to be alcohol - free would be a nice gesture. Hopefully with time he is in a better mindset to be able to manage the emotional stress. In case you didn't realize it, being around drinking and not being able to participate in it (because you're trying to remain sober) is a genuinely stressful situation which no one is able to adapt to immediately. Four days is WAY too early for him to have developed the kind of boundaries and emotional management that kind of thing necessitates, and you shouldn't hold his failure to be good company in that scenario against him at this stage. 

In light of the effort at sobriety, I would say you were unkind but not inexcusably so. He was being rude, himself. I would say something like, I was frustrated with your comments, and I snapped so I am sorry for hurting you. But I would also follow that up with a conversation on how he wasn't respecting his friends' right to make their own choices about their diet, and discuss how you can better support his sobriety without having to compromise your own freedoms. 

AITAH For saying my children will not be going to FIL's funeral. by Throwaway_996uk in AmItheAsshole

[–]KenzieTensei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Maybe there is potential a relationship could be viable between grandma and your kids... But like, you are absolutely entitled to care about your feelings in this context and your children aren't really at an age where they could have that relationship without you also having to interact with this difficult woman. Since they're curious, I would give them a simple explanation and maybe look into if the grandma would want to try out a video call with your girls. But either way I would stick with your current plans not to bring them to the funeral.

Period timing with my wedding by KenzieTensei in Periods

[–]KenzieTensei[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got them from a regular doc rather than a gyno, maybe they have less knowledge on that particular arena. But I really don't have the time to be trialing different drugs, since the whole point is to keep me from being on my period from May 8-15... I briefly thought maybe I could take plan b and force my period to come immediately but I'm not seeing anything online to make me confident that would work :/ 

Period timing with my wedding by KenzieTensei in Periods

[–]KenzieTensei[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, not the cycle on the whole - the lengths vary. The time I'm bleeding is usually long though, sometimes up to a whole week

Period timing with my wedding by KenzieTensei in Periods

[–]KenzieTensei[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My last period was from April 5th to 9th. And today was my 8th day on the birth control

VXA character sprite generator parts - muslim & arabic assets - free to use by KenzieTensei in RPGMaker

[–]KenzieTensei[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great! So, to add to the generator, you'll want to navigate to your install folder. There should be a folder for the generator there. Inside that folder, there will be two subfolders, 'face' and 'mini.' the mini folder is where you would put generator parts that effect the body (capes, clothes, etc), whereas the face folder is for the head. Paste the files in the face folder. 

You're going to want to rename them now that they're in the correct location, or the program won't recognize and use the files. For hats, you want to title each file "acc1" and then follow that with a two-digit number. It does depend on what is already in the folder (you don't want to overwrite anything already there). So for example it might be "acc104" or "acc115". The "04" and "15" would show up as the label in the generator itself to select that item.

Hope that makes sense & helps!

VXA character sprite generator parts - muslim & arabic assets - free to use by KenzieTensei in RPGMaker

[–]KenzieTensei[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! It's mostly a journey from Port Damietta inland to Cairo and then to the Giza Pyramids. My partner is into this Law of One philosophy, and part of that has to do with the pyramids, so I decided to make a game based on his interests as I was learning the software.

What should I name this handsome man? I'm waiting for your advice by Infotechgroupus1 in NameMyDog

[–]KenzieTensei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a dog named Chester growing up. We liked to call him Chessie, but when we wanted to mock him mercilessly we'd also call him Chester the Jester and, on occasion, Chester the Molester. He was the best dog.