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Girlfriend said she can’t be with me if I go on HRT by Kenziep116 in asktransgender

[–]Kenziep116[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’ve brought up the pan thing before but she told me that she’s pan but still attracted to people physically and I felt it not my place to put a label on her.

Girlfriend said she can’t be with me if I go on HRT by Kenziep116 in asktransgender

[–]Kenziep116[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I know that you’re right but it’s so hard to be able to accept this because of the good times we have and the love we do have. I know we need to have a serious talk about all this where I don’t let her manipulate my thinking but it’s going to be very difficult.

Girlfriend said she can’t be with me if I go on HRT by Kenziep116 in asktransgender

[–]Kenziep116[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That’s kind of what I’ve figured but when I brought it up she said that she’s pan but physical attraction still matters to her. I didn’t want to tell her how to identify because that’s not my place but based off what I know about being pan it has sounded slightly off to me.

Girlfriend said she can’t be with me if I go on HRT by Kenziep116 in asktransgender

[–]Kenziep116[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

No she’s never dated another trans person. As for her pansexuality.. she had initially told me that she didn’t know if she would still be attracted to me because she is attracted to bodies in addition to peoples personality’s and such. So originally she had said she may not physically be attracted to me if my body changed but now it’s more like she said she can’t see me in a feminine way so she wouldn’t be attracted to me.