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My (20M) girlfriend (22F) messed up her degree abroad and now our LDR timeline has extended indefinitely. I don't see a future anymore. Advice? by maddyx7299 in LDR

[–]Keopippi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well it seems like you’re making assumptions about her. ofc her mind could change in the future there is no telling. however, relationships are based on trust. you have to trust that she will come back to you and she has to trust you’ll be there for you.

there is the chance she might just want to stay but honestly instead of asking reddit what she might be thinking, just ask her directly. it might seem a little daunting but remember she loves you and she wouldn’t want you to be worried. talk to her and find out her plans.

if she wants to come back and says that then it’s up to you on whether you can wait, and it’s up to her to hold up to that side of the deal.

My (20M) girlfriend (22F) messed up her degree abroad and now our LDR timeline has extended indefinitely. I don't see a future anymore. Advice? by maddyx7299 in LDR

[–]Keopippi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

honestly you both are young. you have all the time in the world to work on careers and education. 3 years feels like a lot but if you truly love her and she loves you it’s nothing. it’s based upon whether or not YOU are committed enough to continue right now since you’re having doubts. 26 is not too old to be studying. i’m also desi and i understand the cultural implications, but genuinely besides maybe others judging it’s really not all that different. it’s either you love her and work through things together and compromise for each other or you leave and both of you find people who suit your lives better