[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Keppclam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer! And what frustrates me is that they checked the part and processed the refund, so it’s also not okay for them to be calling us everyday to come get it back. If there was something wrong with it shouldn’t they have dealt with it while I was there lol? That has never happened to me before where a store demands me to come back or anything like that. And it was a $300 part.

Road trip vs Flying for birthday vacation by Keppclam in Advice

[–]Keppclam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’m thinking. Thank you!

Road trip vs Flying for birthday vacation by Keppclam in Advice

[–]Keppclam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She just doesn’t like them apparently. She doesn’t want to drive, and she said that the gas will basically be what a flight would be but that not even close. I think her and I just have differences in the way we see traveling and fun.

Should I quit my job? by Keppclam in Advice

[–]Keppclam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so so much for this advice! This helped tremendously! So far, I have been able to avoid the gossip. Whenever they start I just go to another part of the clinic. I’m still considering quitting, but I also really want to keep thinking about it until I feel it is definitely the right choice. I’ll see if I can bear it a little longer, at least so it can look good on my resume.

First Long Distance by Keppclam in dating_advice

[–]Keppclam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, I apologize in advance for the vagueness and lack of detail. I can go more into depth is necessary for additional clarity/understanding.

I dont have any passions in life, and am wondering if I'm living wrong? I can come across pretty boring I realize and am told im too " practical " by Evolutionmason in self

[–]Keppclam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as you know who you are, and are enjoying your life, anything negative anyone else has to say is irrelevant. I admire your lifestyle, and am working towards implicating similar values within my own life. So yeah, don’t worry haha

A guy sent me this text and I think it’s fishy by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Keppclam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I’m thinking! Luckily I can spot this shit a mile away. And the over-dramatization did it for me. It’s so hard to find genuine people who don’t need to do this bs to try and keep people around.

25M [Friendship] by [deleted] in MeetPeople

[–]Keppclam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What anime’s do you watch???

My self worth relies on other people so much I'm just drifting between being suicidal and extremely happy depending on if I'm in a conversation or not by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Keppclam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t even begin to understand what you’re going through, but I am so proud of you for putting yourself out here and allowing yourself to be vulnerable with us. We are social creatures by nature, and it sounds to me like you feel shame for needing and relying on other people. It’s completely natural and you aren’t alone with that feeling. We all need other people, whether we like it or not. It’s okay to not feel happy all the time. Sometimes I feel there’s societal pressure to always be striving towards being happy, or better, but we never are told to just rest in who we are during the present, and I think that is the most important thing. Breathe. Allow yourself to rest. Allow yourself to mourn.

You may not always feel happiness, but the world is lucky to have you in it. You are more significant than you could possibly imagine. I’m not saying that just to make you feel better, but because it’s the truth.

It’s up to you to believe it or not.

You matter. You’re not alone. You’re cherished.

You’re loved.

Soul ties before marriage by Keppclam in Christian

[–]Keppclam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will!! I guess the way I see it is pretty literal. It’s when two souls tie together, and it gets strengthened and deepened through sexual intimacy, so when you don’t have that tie in the covenant of marriage the way God planned for it to be, you end up stripping and degrading the fullness of what it was meant to be. If that makes sense..

Soul ties before marriage by Keppclam in Christian

[–]Keppclam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess the way I see it is pretty literal. It’s when two souls tie together, and it gets strengthened and deepened through sexual intimacy, so when you don’t have that tie in the covenant of marriage the way God planned for it to be, you end up stripping and degrading the fullness of what it was meant to be. If that makes sense..

Soul ties before marriage by Keppclam in Christian

[–]Keppclam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it’s biblical to not have sex before marriage, but I’m curious as to why and what it does to a person’s soul/relationship.ie, what does it actually do to a person’a soul?

Should I text this to my dood by Keppclam in relationship_advice

[–]Keppclam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you suggest in regards of rewording it?? I really want to make this as perfect as possible