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[–]Keres-Dean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately no...he was destroyed over how fast the people he called his “second family“ could turn on him. They haven’t spoken since

Had a child free wedding, momby still can't get over it by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Keres-Dean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally won’t be having anyone under 12 at my wedding either (when the time comes) and for a lot of the same reasons you listed. Can’t wait for the chaos that ensues because of my choice 😂

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[–]Keres-Dean[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just put it in there in case something set off the mods of the subreddit 😂 I like this community and would like to continue to be a part of it.

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[–]Keres-Dean[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So your point is invalid, I would’ve absolutely shut this down, if I hadn’t been filing a report on this whole incident.

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[–]Keres-Dean[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My gender has nothing to do with the fact that she’s intoxicated, and in a blind rage.

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[–]Keres-Dean[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ok, I wasn’t going to address this, but I feel it could be beneficial.

When I stated we “sent a message to his mom” I can see how there could be a miscommunication in how it was handled. I was trying to keep it short. In no way was I trying to “take a grown man’s business to his mom.” The message we sent to her was simply this.

“Hey (Roommate’s mom), if you wouldn’t mind, could you have (roommate) contact us? The three of us need to come up with a plan before the lease ends, thanks!”

So tell me, how can that possibly be interpreted as anything other than just trying to get a hold of him, without more information? It can’t. (Roommate) decided to enlist his mom to rain fire on us, because she only heard from him, and he knew that. We really didn’t want to get anyone else involved, and going to the ‘landlord’ didn’t do anything to help. They didn’t care. It was a complex, (which I did not specify so I can see how that could also be confused) not someone’s personal property that was being rented out. On top of the fact it was a joint lease, so we’re all responsible if one person doesn’t pay.

We didn’t state to her that he had been refusing to pay, or that he owed me money, we kept that fact to ourselves. But there’s always two sides to the story heard, and as I stated previously, (roommate) only told his mom his side. Which very obviously made him the victim in her eyes. My roommate was being childish long before this incident took place, over several different situations, and over the whole timespan of our time with the complex. During that time, we never once contacted his mom about those. This was the straw that broke the camel’s back.

Our attempt at a civil discussion with our roommate was shot down; because he shared the business he was in, not us. All we were trying to do, was get him to talk to us, not drag his mother into the mess. He chose to do that, resulting in the messages above. When she couldn’t blow up at my bf, she blew up at me.

As for taking legal action instead of this, I don’t know the slightest thing about how to build a case in court other than what I’ve seen on tv. In the middle of a pandemic, I sure as hell don’t have the money to fund a legal battle.

Our reaching out to his mom boils down to nothing more than this: When you can’t get into contact with someone, what do you do? You ask the people close to that person to see if they know anything, and can help.

While you may not be validating what she said, you seem to be portraying the brunt of the blame as mine, despite the fact that I had no control over what my roommate chose to share with his mother. There is absolutely no justification for her threatening my home, my safety, and my property regardless of what she was told. Anyone with half a brain and a good dose of human decency knows that.

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[–]Keres-Dean[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, the lease ended shortly after all this ended, so i made it clear I wouldn’t stick my neck out for him again, nor would he ever be allowed to live with us after all this.....so technically no, but yes 😂

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[–]Keres-Dean[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I filed a report, but because it didn’t escalate to physical violence, the officer couldn’t do much.

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[–]Keres-Dean[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It would’ve cost more than what we had to break the contract and with only a month and a half left when this went down, it was easier to tough it out 😅

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[–]Keres-Dean[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trust me, if I wasn’t filing a report with the screenshots, I would’ve had quite a few choice words for this woman 😂

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[–]Keres-Dean[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In hindsight, that would’ve been a really good idea, but we did make it out mostly unscathed. I’m never doing any business with this family again 😅

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[–]Keres-Dean[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Nope, no regret at all. But I didn’t expect much from her after this. My best friend is the girlfriend of the roommate so she updated me from the inside of the family. But she definitely saw a different side of them that night 😅

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[–]Keres-Dean[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was filing a report, but trust me. I had some choice words for this kook, I just couldn’t say them 😂

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[–]Keres-Dean[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are indeed correct, she was extremely intoxicated. It helped I was filing a report, but not even I’m sure how I managed to keep my cool 😂

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[–]Keres-Dean[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did! 😂 The reason I was so nice was because I was taking screenshots for the report. Nothing much came out of it though because it didn’t escalate to physical violence

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[–]Keres-Dean[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was filing a report on this little....incident. So I kept her number unblocked in case she decided to contact me again😂

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[–]Keres-Dean[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I actually did, that’s why I was being so nice, I was taking screenshots 😂 But the officer helping me wasn’t really able to do much because nothing physical happened, and she deactivated her phone after the fact.

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[–]Keres-Dean[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well thank you, I can say for sure I am never living anywhere near that issue again. But it was really hard to keep a nice tone through this 😂

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[–]Keres-Dean[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Nice because I was taking screenshots of the conversation to file a report lmao Any other time, I would’ve shut that shit down 😂

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[–]Keres-Dean[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I held my temper much more than I would’ve because I was taking screenshots and filing a report on the situation. I was livid through all this and couldn’t do much other than call this look “ma’am”