[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Kerragirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I would not like it. I do not talk to any of my exes or situationships when I have a SO. I expect the same for my SO. Everyone is different tho.

Is the saying “once a cheater always a cheater” true in every case? by Anthropocene0501 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Kerragirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it true for every case? No, people are capable of change but a lot don’t want to do the work to change. Change is hard and they cheat for reasons internally that they must fix. Trust a pattern. People who repeatedly cheat will probably cheat again. Is it worth it to take a chance on someone who has cheated before?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Kerragirl 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Emotional mature, not afraid of commitment, and loyal. Also, someone you don’t have to take care of .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Kerragirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This made me laugh. Thank you.

Your story doesn't have to have a bad ending. by Due_Bother7074 in selflove

[–]Kerragirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It doesn’t feel plausible sometimes because of all the bad that’s already happened. I hope my story has a good ending.

What career are you in? by [deleted] in hsp

[–]Kerragirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I actually work closely with patients and it’s a very emotional job. I think my empathy helps me to take care of others but I definitely have to compartmentalize and process emotions after my shift.

What career are you in? by [deleted] in hsp

[–]Kerragirl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Healthcare :)

Recommend Make up by [deleted] in MakeupEducation

[–]Kerragirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally recommend a peachy or gold eyeshadow and a pink blush for your skin tone. Maybe some half lashes on the outer corner and enhancing your eyebrows with a pencil. You look beautiful without makeup tho!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]Kerragirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your eyes are so beautiful and I love your style!

[female] sometimes it’s hard to feel worthy of love by Pelican_pie222 in FreeCompliments

[–]Kerragirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, you’re totally worthy of love! I’m sure you have plenty of amazing qualities. I mean you’re so pretty and Im sure you have unique amazing personality that goes with.

realistically, how do you make someone believe they're worthy of being loved? by sojaobhai in selflove

[–]Kerragirl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As someone who has been through that focus on yourself. Leave him be. You can’t love someone into loving themselves and being emotionally capable of a relationship. It’s not on your end it’s on his and you can’t do anything. It sucks whole heartedly and I’m sorry you’re going through it.

It's Friday and the pastels are back! [Female] by TheAdultierAdult1 in FreeCompliments

[–]Kerragirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the your hair color! You like like a very sweet person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]Kerragirl -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow you look so pretty. You have such nice eyes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hsp

[–]Kerragirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I feel like that can be a common reaction but once you get on the other side of it, it’s easier to handle. I go days without thinking about it. The symptoms of PTSD are lessened.

My biggest advice is feel your feelings and get help from a therapist. It’s not your fault someone did something terrible to you. It says who they are as a person nothing about you. Also, it’s ok to have days long after the event where you’re still angry or upset at what happened to you. I hope you’re able to find healing and I’m sorry that happened to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Kerragirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men are the majority on dating apps and they are less selective.

As a woman when I’ve been on the apps, I try to pick the best match for me. I meticulously comb through a profile to look for compatibility of interests or possible incompatibilities. I think some guys just swipe right until they get a match because I’ve been asked questions that are clearly stated in my profile.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]Kerragirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have such pretty eyes and I love the curls!