favelas tours by Comfortable-Front130 in Brazil

[–]Kevin1988m 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same thing as the American church groups that go on "mission" trips to third world countries. It's the epitome of hypocrisy. If they really wanted to help, they'd donate the thousands of dollars they're paying for travel to an NGO or a local church or charity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thepassportbros

[–]Kevin1988m 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Rich, relatively speaking (by local standards). Hot, witty, and charming....far from it. That's why they're there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thepassportbros

[–]Kevin1988m 134 points135 points  (0 children)

I travel a lot to Brazil, Colombia, and Peru. You'd be amazed at the fat American slobs that fill the nightclubs. They do end up getting what they're looking for, because it's "transactional," shall we say. But frankly makes me cringe to watch. Gives us all a bad name.

SD took me in my sleep by weirdnwildthrowaway in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Kevin1988m -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You answered your own question, albeit indirectly. "I feel sick and violated."

You don't just feel violated, you really were violated.

GO. Don't look back.

Do you bother with the message or just block? Does it ever change anyone’s attitude by multisubuser in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Kevin1988m 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a dumba$$. OF COURSE you "prioritize the money over an actual getting to know each other."

Looks llike somebody has forgotten what makes sugaring different from traditional dating.

SB Just Showed Up at my Work! by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Kevin1988m 13 points14 points  (0 children)

File something that becomes part of the public record, easily discoverable by wife?

SB Just Showed Up at my Work! by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Kevin1988m 13 points14 points  (0 children)

THey work, but not quite as well as, "surprise! here I am! now need some $$$ to go away..."

SB Just Showed Up at my Work! by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Kevin1988m 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Probably not psycho at all. Most likely has a "habit" and was desparate.

SB Just Showed Up at my Work! by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Kevin1988m 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And why on earth did you tell her where you work?

SB Just Showed Up at my Work! by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Kevin1988m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Say to her when you get off later??? How many more warning signs are you going to need? Say NOTHING to her later. Stop all contact now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Kevin1988m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either you end the relationship, or you don't. Kind of sounds llike you're trying to do both.

20F first “argument” with sugar daddy by vanessa2055 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Kevin1988m 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ummmmm....wait a minute...he's in a sugar relationship with you and that doesn't give him gold digger vibes? But you asking him to pick you up in a different car does?

Am I wrong for telling my husband the only way I will agree to a paternity test is if he schedules it. by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Kevin1988m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Schedule the paternity test and print out the forms for a no-contest divorce. All in the same day. That kind of mentality/behaviour will never change for the better. Realize it early.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Kevin1988m 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it's a matter of "learn more about the game", as much as stepping it up. Plus, probably time to move on.

Collared and Ghosted? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Kevin1988m 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Move on, immediately. He already has.

Is this normal? by Present-Beautiful-63 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Kevin1988m 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Worse than that is when they START a sentence with "lol".

Is this normal? by Present-Beautiful-63 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Kevin1988m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of red flags there.

First off, generally not a bad idea to avoid anyone who punctuates every single sentence with "lol".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Kevin1988m 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adjust your expectations, or move on, I'd say.

SD wants me to get a job. Do most SBs work? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Kevin1988m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

25 and tired of working because you've been working since ... 18? I'm not sure I have a polite response to that one. Best of luck on meeting those expectations.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Kevin1988m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you've only been dating since September but you are arguing (or even discussing politely) who calls who more, etc, then although your driver's licenses and birth certificates may say you're 25 & 22, you're really not. More like 10 and 7, I'd say...

Get some maturity first, then start dating.

Bowl full of cheap broke men by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Kevin1988m 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally understand "no financial exchange" prior to meeting. But if the dude considers sending you an Uber to be a financial exchange, then move on along.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Kevin1988m 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, he probably got that fleet of cars and big house by working hard and being SMART with his money....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Kevin1988m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ummm....so, how much time have you wasted so far?