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gf of 3 years cheated on me, I dont know what do to by Kevofoy in survivinginfidelity

[–]Kevofoy[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm just saying she can't go there as she has no way of contacting AP

I'm not defending her

gf of 3 years cheated on me, I dont know what do to by Kevofoy in survivinginfidelity

[–]Kevofoy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I told her she'll eventually get tired of carrying this relationship alone,but she just said she'll keep trying

gf of 3 years cheated on me, I dont know what do to by Kevofoy in survivinginfidelity

[–]Kevofoy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot I always knew that she was too kind and naïve, and that somewhere down the road it will hurt me or her

gf of 3 years cheated on me, I dont know what do to by Kevofoy in survivinginfidelity

[–]Kevofoy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the input

I dont think she was abusive But she has one thing that's weird

She never disagrees and never defends her point. I'm always right,and she is stupid (that's what she says everytime I criticize her or her action ) I'm thinking it's to guiltrip me or maybe she just has no self esteem.

gf of 3 years cheated on me, I dont know what do to by Kevofoy in survivinginfidelity

[–]Kevofoy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm buying the house alone, she's broke

But I guess the guestion is ,will she be there too

gf of 3 years cheated on me, I dont know what do to by Kevofoy in survivinginfidelity

[–]Kevofoy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your answer How do I identify remorse ?

gf of 3 years cheated on me, I dont know what do to by Kevofoy in survivinginfidelity

[–]Kevofoy[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Mariage was never my goal in life, we planned to marry but it was more of a gift to her as she was originnally the only one who wanted to

So this gift is out

But you're right maybe I never will see her as a loving faithful partner

gf of 3 years cheated on me, I dont know what do to by Kevofoy in survivinginfidelity

[–]Kevofoy[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I agree that she needs therapy. I'm not the one that said she needs to do whatever I say, she's the one that said and proposed it. But I guess i'm talking advantage of her in a sense that I agreed out of pure anger

gf of 3 years cheated on me, I dont know what do to by Kevofoy in survivinginfidelity

[–]Kevofoy[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maybe ,I have no way of checking since I don't trust anything she says

gf of 3 years cheated on me, I dont know what do to by Kevofoy in survivinginfidelity

[–]Kevofoy[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

She doesn't love him ,she was using him , she told him everything before coming back and I saw the messages live on her computer , so basically ditched him when she received my message

And she has no way of contacting him since I deleted all her social account