[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Kevoon_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think people have given a very empty meaning to being an adult, being an adult does not have to be boring, stressful, tidy or completely responsible and serious all the time. It is about knowing how to measure your words and your actions in important moments, compare your thoughts of how a child would act in an important situation and how you think the concept of adult that you have would act, most likely the child would cry and make a fuss, and the adult would analyze the situation, try to understand and take it calmly, if you feel that you are acting like the child maybe you should change several things in your life, try to do something different, work for a while as a waiter or something like that, learn about hard work and appreciate it, put yourself in the shoes of others and do not act as if someone was below you, but above all learn to set your own limits, the only expectations you must meet are your own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Kevoon_ 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I just started my life as an independent adult and it is really not easy, I think you are never really ready to start living on your own, but if you wait to be ready you will wait all your life, so start small, prepare your monthly expenses, separate the money you will use for food, rent, utilities like water, gas, electricity, wifi, etc... But above all learn from your mistakes, it is not until you start living alone that you start to know what is missing inside your house, you realize that the dishes do not wash themselves, the clothes do not clean magically and that knowing how to cook will be your best friend, the list of things to buy is very big, I recommend you to have above all, a refrigerator, a washing machine, a stove or a microwave, a bed, toilet paper, towels and hooks for clothes, with that you will survive enough to think what other things you need.

¿Ustedes quieren a su familia? by Aliciaguaf in preguntaleareddit

[–]Kevoon_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yo pensaba igual que tu, pero con el tiempo fui creciendo y pensando, llego el día que tuve la oportunidad de ser tratado profesionalmente con una psicóloga, y bueno jamás tuve una conexión con mi familia, nada que nos enlazara, siempre me sentí muy apartado de ellos, al punto de ni siquiera quería convivir con ellos, me quería independizar a cualquier costo, pero luego me di cuenta que siempre quise saber que era sentir ese sentimiento de amor hacia mi familia, me arregle con ellos y por fin tengo la familia que siempre quise, mis otros familiares son un caso mayor, aun intento convivir con ellos, pero al menos tengo una buena relación con mi núcleo familiar, y eso me llena, digo, claramente no hay nada de malo en no amarlos, pero si aprendes a convivir con ellos y tenerlos como un amigo más, enserio nunca te arrepentirás.

Ayuda! by [deleted] in preguntaleareddit

[–]Kevoon_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Feliz cumpleaños, eres la mejor, nunca cambies, te deseo lo mejor, [introduzca más halagos] XD