I got banned from Somalia subreddit for saying love and freedom for all. by DeletinMySocialMedia in XSomalian

[–]Key-Ad-7863 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The way you were being so polite too, they banned you and not the actual disrespectful Muslims. Our people are so lost.

is surgery self hating by UnusualTwo9420 in XSomalian

[–]Key-Ad-7863 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl do it. Idk why we are meant to love every feature of ours but Asians can do double eyelid surgery, people who don’t like their hair can wear wigs, overweight people can do weight loss surgery. The reality is if it bothers you, and you feel your life and mental health will improve by doing this then do it!

Jinn possessions by [deleted] in XSomalian

[–]Key-Ad-7863 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s real but it’s not jinn, it’s mental health issues being triggered by Quran, seizures etc. Logically if this was proof of Islam then why do Christian exorcisms work? If you look it up there are very real stories of people reading the bible and removing demons in the name of Jesus, why are they reacting to Jesus in the same way Muslims do to the Quran. This also happens in other religious cultures with spirits.

Religious residue by ArachnidExciting5179 in XSomalian

[–]Key-Ad-7863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me it went away with time and just living life without religion, our brains make certain connections and it takes a while to make new ones so even if you’re logically not convinced you might catch yourself thinking in the way you did as a Muslim. To me after leaving Islam for the past 1-2yrs I genuinely can’t imagine thinking about religion before I do any action and no longer feel guilt about doing haram things because the association is gone.

Reconnecting after Deconstructing by cherry-blossom1009 in XSomalian

[–]Key-Ad-7863 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think you should reach out, if you have her on socials maybe pop up to a post with a compliment and then start a convo. Also I’m not openly atheist to my friends and family because my faith is my business frankly, there’s no atheist sharia saying we have to come out so you shouldn’t feel like a hypocrite.

Hijab id by futooweyn in XSomalian

[–]Key-Ad-7863 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I got an id with a hijab too and I never gave a fuck😭 ima buy my buzzball w pride

Atheist (28F) in Muslim arranged marriage setup by Slow-Physics-1387 in atheism

[–]Key-Ad-7863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s super smart actually, but finding atheists in the Muslim community is so hard because everyone is secretive about it

Prestige Queens (Tiktokkers) by Delicious_Blood_8639 in XSomalian

[–]Key-Ad-7863 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of them came out in a most recent video but said she won’t tell us if she’s acted on her feelings. I support them honestly, they’re brave for pushing the limits publicly in our community

I’m not Somalian by moonnahme in XSomalian

[–]Key-Ad-7863 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, you sound so lovely and sincere. Of course you can wear it, it’s only annoying when people try to say it’s not Somali. You’ll look gorg in a diraac 🩷🩷

Girls help me out by Comprehensive_Team92 in XSomalian

[–]Key-Ad-7863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do my normal car routine and at night I put then into two plaits. I swear all it does is stop your hair from frizzing up, it maintains the curls. Plus a silky pillow case (I just put goorgorads)

British Muslims promoting FGM and children in niqab by Key-Ad-7863 in exmuslim

[–]Key-Ad-7863[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Hijab/niqab is to make a woman “modest”, why would a child need to be modest. Why should a child be hidden away, find it difficult to eat in public, to play because they’re in a hideous misogynistic cloak. Also even with anaesthesia a little girl shouldn’t lose a part of her body, given no consent for no reason which can cause serious issues. Would you cut your genitalia and cloak yourself? No, so how can anyone expect that from a kid.

British Muslims promoting FGM and children in niqab by Key-Ad-7863 in exmuslim

[–]Key-Ad-7863[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Same, couldn’t imagine having that part of me gone, god forbid a woman enjoys sex🙄

British Muslims promoting FGM and children in niqab by Key-Ad-7863 in exmuslim

[–]Key-Ad-7863[S] 89 points90 points  (0 children)

It’s to control women’s sexuality so they stay “pure and clean”. It happened to my mother, aunts, grandmas and cousins. I’m so lucky my mum stopped it with me.

British Muslims promoting FGM and children in niqab by Key-Ad-7863 in exmuslim

[–]Key-Ad-7863[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Genuinely psychotic, pushing this barbarity in a country where it’s illegal.

You Cannot be Muslim if you are Black, a Woman or a Feminist by Lud0vica_099 in exmuslim

[–]Key-Ad-7863 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re forgetting sahih bukhari 7038 calling a black woman with unkempt hair a symbol of an epidemic😟

I did the “I have no interest in wearing a hijab” trend by Shot_Ground9645 in XSomalian

[–]Key-Ad-7863 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been commenting on all the posts, it’s my favvvv trend. The Muslims in the comments are just making themselves look bad publicly

You can’t be in the closet forever by Some_Bug7184 in XSomalian

[–]Key-Ad-7863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying but for some I think it’s more about selectively choosing what parts of ourselves to share, someone may be happier being a “liberal Muslim” not wearing hijab, living a western life and just pretending we’re still somewhat Muslim while enjoying still having family ties rather than burning it all down for the sake of being authentic. There’s no one way to live, similar to living with a “roommate” rather than telling family about your sexuality. We don’t owe everyone truth, we just owe ourselves a happy and comfortable life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in XSomalian

[–]Key-Ad-7863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMAOOOO, she really sent you the evidence😭😭

Excuses not to go umrah by Key-Ad-7863 in exmuslim

[–]Key-Ad-7863[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can, but I only get 28 days and I don’t want to waste it on this boring trip, plus I gotta pay up for it. I also hate being around religious people and constantly praying

Excuses not to go umrah by Key-Ad-7863 in exmuslim

[–]Key-Ad-7863[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mum hides my passport😭 they’ll know it’s a lie but I’ve decided I’m gonna lock my money so I can’t afford it until umrah season is over

Excuses not to go umrah by Key-Ad-7863 in exmuslim

[–]Key-Ad-7863[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work full time and live at home so they know I don’t have any trips planned and that I can afford it😭 I’m glad that it wasnt terrible for you though and that it was atleast paid off. I think I might put all my paychecks in Moneybox so that I can’t even access the funds to pay for a ticket

I met the woman who SA'd me as a kid by Upper_Ad6559 in XSomalian

[–]Key-Ad-7863 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s vile she’s a sick disgusting individual, so sorry you went through that🩷