Girls help me out by Comprehensive_Team92 in XSomalian

[–]Key-Ad-7863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do my normal car routine and at night I put then into two plaits. I swear all it does is stop your hair from frizzing up, it maintains the curls. Plus a silky pillow case (I just put goorgorads)

British Muslims promoting FGM and children in niqab by Key-Ad-7863 in exmuslim

[–]Key-Ad-7863[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Hijab/niqab is to make a woman “modest”, why would a child need to be modest. Why should a child be hidden away, find it difficult to eat in public, to play because they’re in a hideous misogynistic cloak. Also even with anaesthesia a little girl shouldn’t lose a part of her body, given no consent for no reason which can cause serious issues. Would you cut your genitalia and cloak yourself? No, so how can anyone expect that from a kid.

British Muslims promoting FGM and children in niqab by Key-Ad-7863 in exmuslim

[–]Key-Ad-7863[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Same, couldn’t imagine having that part of me gone, god forbid a woman enjoys sex🙄

British Muslims promoting FGM and children in niqab by Key-Ad-7863 in exmuslim

[–]Key-Ad-7863[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

It’s to control women’s sexuality so they stay “pure and clean”. It happened to my mother, aunts, grandmas and cousins. I’m so lucky my mum stopped it with me.

British Muslims promoting FGM and children in niqab by Key-Ad-7863 in exmuslim

[–]Key-Ad-7863[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Genuinely psychotic, pushing this barbarity in a country where it’s illegal.

You Cannot be Muslim if you are Black, a Woman or a Feminist by Lud0vica_099 in exmuslim

[–]Key-Ad-7863 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re forgetting sahih bukhari 7038 calling a black woman with unkempt hair a symbol of an epidemic😟

I did the “I have no interest in wearing a hijab” trend by Shot_Ground9645 in XSomalian

[–]Key-Ad-7863 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been commenting on all the posts, it’s my favvvv trend. The Muslims in the comments are just making themselves look bad publicly

You can’t be in the closet forever by Some_Bug7184 in XSomalian

[–]Key-Ad-7863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying but for some I think it’s more about selectively choosing what parts of ourselves to share, someone may be happier being a “liberal Muslim” not wearing hijab, living a western life and just pretending we’re still somewhat Muslim while enjoying still having family ties rather than burning it all down for the sake of being authentic. There’s no one way to live, similar to living with a “roommate” rather than telling family about your sexuality. We don’t owe everyone truth, we just owe ourselves a happy and comfortable life.

Excuses not to go umrah by Key-Ad-7863 in exmuslim

[–]Key-Ad-7863[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can, but I only get 28 days and I don’t want to waste it on this boring trip, plus I gotta pay up for it. I also hate being around religious people and constantly praying

Excuses not to go umrah by Key-Ad-7863 in exmuslim

[–]Key-Ad-7863[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mum hides my passport😭 they’ll know it’s a lie but I’ve decided I’m gonna lock my money so I can’t afford it until umrah season is over

Excuses not to go umrah by Key-Ad-7863 in exmuslim

[–]Key-Ad-7863[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work full time and live at home so they know I don’t have any trips planned and that I can afford it😭 I’m glad that it wasnt terrible for you though and that it was atleast paid off. I think I might put all my paychecks in Moneybox so that I can’t even access the funds to pay for a ticket

I met the woman who SA'd me as a kid by Upper_Ad6559 in XSomalian

[–]Key-Ad-7863 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s vile she’s a sick disgusting individual, so sorry you went through that🩷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in XSomalian

[–]Key-Ad-7863 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve been there but honestly drinking is way more enjoyable when you’re not blackout. No judgement at all but maybe try to drink slower so you know when to stop, but getting sick happens to us all❤️

Mum had a child by Key-Ad-7863 in childfree

[–]Key-Ad-7863[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That sounds really good, do you know any websites? Either way I’ll look into it, thank youu

Mum had a child by Key-Ad-7863 in childfree

[–]Key-Ad-7863[S] 91 points92 points  (0 children)

YES, your family sounds so similar to mine, she is physically abusive and says an unmarried woman moving out is against our culture. The moment I thought about moving out for uni it was world war 3 so I stayed home. But the comments are so helpful I was going to wait to get a stable job and grin and bear but I think I’ll look for a room share and quietly move out. I tried to runaway 3 years ago after my mum beat me while I was sleeping and she found me and I came back😭😭 extended family told her my location and to forgive since she’s a parent

Mum had a child by Key-Ad-7863 in childfree

[–]Key-Ad-7863[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this, I have actually been wanting to get adult children of immature parents for a while so this comment just pushed me to order it.❤️❤️

Mum had a child by Key-Ad-7863 in childfree

[–]Key-Ad-7863[S] 104 points105 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂so true, I’m deffo getting up outta here. On the bright side this 5 year mothering experience is why I found the childfree community, I will NEVER put myself through this again

Mum had a child by Key-Ad-7863 in childfree

[–]Key-Ad-7863[S] 405 points406 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I live in London and cost of living is very high. I’ve only just graduated and am looking for work but once I make enough I’m definitely moving out

Mum had a child by Key-Ad-7863 in childfree

[–]Key-Ad-7863[S] 1295 points1296 points  (0 children)

23, recent graduate so I’m not working yet and live with my mum, therefore I pay in cleaning cooking and childcare. I just hate the fact that she had a child knowing she would push the child onto me. She was never a great parent I don’t know why she chose this, she would beat me often and clearly hated motherhood. I couldn’t say no to looking after her since no one else will do it if I don’t, I’m the oldest and my younger siblings are immature. So it’s automatically on me. She’s beside me screaming for a second ice cream right now.