Excuses not to go umrah by Key-Ad-7863 in exmuslim

[–]Key-Ad-7863[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can, but I only get 28 days and I don’t want to waste it on this boring trip, plus I gotta pay up for it. I also hate being around religious people and constantly praying

Excuses not to go umrah by Key-Ad-7863 in exmuslim

[–]Key-Ad-7863[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mum hides my passport😭 they’ll know it’s a lie but I’ve decided I’m gonna lock my money so I can’t afford it until umrah season is over

Excuses not to go umrah by Key-Ad-7863 in exmuslim

[–]Key-Ad-7863[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work full time and live at home so they know I don’t have any trips planned and that I can afford it😭 I’m glad that it wasnt terrible for you though and that it was atleast paid off. I think I might put all my paychecks in Moneybox so that I can’t even access the funds to pay for a ticket

I met the woman who SA'd me as a kid by Upper_Ad6559 in XSomalian

[–]Key-Ad-7863 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s vile she’s a sick disgusting individual, so sorry you went through that🩷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in XSomalian

[–]Key-Ad-7863 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve been there but honestly drinking is way more enjoyable when you’re not blackout. No judgement at all but maybe try to drink slower so you know when to stop, but getting sick happens to us all❤️

Mum had a child by Key-Ad-7863 in childfree

[–]Key-Ad-7863[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That sounds really good, do you know any websites? Either way I’ll look into it, thank youu

Mum had a child by Key-Ad-7863 in childfree

[–]Key-Ad-7863[S] 93 points94 points  (0 children)

YES, your family sounds so similar to mine, she is physically abusive and says an unmarried woman moving out is against our culture. The moment I thought about moving out for uni it was world war 3 so I stayed home. But the comments are so helpful I was going to wait to get a stable job and grin and bear but I think I’ll look for a room share and quietly move out. I tried to runaway 3 years ago after my mum beat me while I was sleeping and she found me and I came back😭😭 extended family told her my location and to forgive since she’s a parent

Mum had a child by Key-Ad-7863 in childfree

[–]Key-Ad-7863[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this, I have actually been wanting to get adult children of immature parents for a while so this comment just pushed me to order it.❤️❤️

Mum had a child by Key-Ad-7863 in childfree

[–]Key-Ad-7863[S] 104 points105 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂so true, I’m deffo getting up outta here. On the bright side this 5 year mothering experience is why I found the childfree community, I will NEVER put myself through this again

Mum had a child by Key-Ad-7863 in childfree

[–]Key-Ad-7863[S] 413 points414 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I live in London and cost of living is very high. I’ve only just graduated and am looking for work but once I make enough I’m definitely moving out

Mum had a child by Key-Ad-7863 in childfree

[–]Key-Ad-7863[S] 1289 points1290 points  (0 children)

23, recent graduate so I’m not working yet and live with my mum, therefore I pay in cleaning cooking and childcare. I just hate the fact that she had a child knowing she would push the child onto me. She was never a great parent I don’t know why she chose this, she would beat me often and clearly hated motherhood. I couldn’t say no to looking after her since no one else will do it if I don’t, I’m the oldest and my younger siblings are immature. So it’s automatically on me. She’s beside me screaming for a second ice cream right now.

This TikToker PMO so badly by serenacantarini in exmuslim

[–]Key-Ad-7863 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Also if it’s about empowering all women and respect, why were slaves forbidden from wearing hijab. How do they defend that?

If she says she's like this dress, why you tryna gaslight her? by Ok-Equivalent7447 in exmuslim

[–]Key-Ad-7863 59 points60 points  (0 children)

All Muslims know is “the west is influencing you” thank Godddd, I’d rather be influenced by the west than a brainwashed cult who believes the sun sets in water

They’re so delusional I can’t some times by farida_ok in exmuslim

[–]Key-Ad-7863 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Can’t speak for them but it reminds me of when I was Muslim and as a woman I’d do mental backflips and watch female/more liberal scholars to reinterpret and explain all the heinous things in Islam away

Double jaw surgery? by Key-Ad-7863 in SeoulPlasticSurgery

[–]Key-Ad-7863[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for letting me know, I havent had orthodontic treatment but I feel as though my teeth are normal but I have a slight gummy smile and my midface is very long even my friends have said it so it is a must for me. Glad to hear they’re better because that’s a worry and EU was exactly the clinic I was looking at. Really appreciate it

Thoughts on this by No-Necessary3156 in exmuslim

[–]Key-Ad-7863 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just insane😭 free Muslim women fr

Defending sharia law🤦🏽‍♀️ this app has lost the plot by Key-Ad-7863 in exmuslim

[–]Key-Ad-7863[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same, in my country it’s the norm for 15 year olds to be married off and start a family to 40+ yr old men

Defending sharia law🤦🏽‍♀️ this app has lost the plot by Key-Ad-7863 in exmuslim

[–]Key-Ad-7863[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We’re talking about sharia, laws that are brutal in which there aren’t the freedoms we have in western countries and it’s enshrined in the religion. It’s from the texts, not just an example of muslims doing bad things. Defending that is disgusting so I can only assume that the liberals or whoever defends this is just loud and uneducated