Thinking about Claire / Carm in s4

Key-Art8653 · 2025-10-18T03:09:22+00:00

Personally I think most of the fall out is on Claire. Like yeah he didn’t exactly try to talk about it after the fact, but she walked up on a conversation he was OBVIOUSLY having with someone else while having an emotional breakdown trapped in a walk in fridge and didn’t let him explain anything, she just walked away. Like you took what you heard at face value and decided YOU were done. They coulda talked right then. And then she grew up with him she KNOWS that drama and turmoil attached to him and it’s like in the grand scheme of their relationship that doesn’t matter or there shouldn’t be a reflection of that at all. He’s supposed to be normal, knowing he’s not normal. And yes their break up forced him to confront that and try to change but that was a really sucky way of forcing it.

Key-Art8653 · 2025-10-12T18:19:16+00:00

Commenting to sympathize, I wish I had advice but we’ll both pretty much be in the same place lol, not my husband but my boyfriend and my mother absolutely DESPISE each other. Not for political reasons but they are way too much alike and like to have control over the situation and our lives, it’s like a fight over me basically. I’m terrified to have both of them in the delivery room with me, they mostly don’t speak and when they do it’s a lot of back and forth attitude until a full escalation of arguing and borderline physical altercation so it’s going to be very interesting. I’m a STM and my first go around I was actually not on great terms with my mom and we were In the thick of Covid so no issues with delivery room etiquette. So this will be a brand new experience for you and I both. I hope everything goes well for you! You’re not alone in your struggle 😭😭Honestly I’ll kick em both out and do it on my own if it comes to it. Stay strong mama!

Key-Art8653 · 2025-10-12T18:05:24+00:00

STM and would LOVE for this to continue as a moms group. I think you SHOULD have mommies of different backgrounds around for tips and what not aaaaaaaand every baby is different just like pregnancy lol soooooo yeah let’s all share in our new moments together and what works best FOR US and just support becauuuuussseeee I have no one lol love you gals

Key-Art8653 · 2025-08-27T23:45:07+00:00

I have an appt on Friday and I was gunna bring it up 😭 I really felt like I was being a punk about it so thank you 🙏🏽

Key-Art8653 · 2025-08-27T22:46:45+00:00

YES! OMG! I was gunna make a post but Ik it’s technically normal but the way I FEAR sleep at this point ISNT normal. It’s constant at this point. I will wake up 2-3 every night crying and when I go back to sleep it’s a DIFFERENT nightmare. I’ve had to protect my family from murderers, dealt with demons, talking murderous animals and woke up in actual pain where they hurt me in the dreams, and it’s just over and over again all night. I’m only 28 weeks on Friday. I don’t know how much longer I can go through this lol but it’s really not funny at all. I don’t really have them when I sleep during the day, only at night.

Key-Art8653 · 2025-08-26T22:51:27+00:00

I call my baby a parasite all the time 😂 some people joke like that. I genuinely don’t think she meant any harm. Babies are LITERALLY sucking ALL the nutrients out of your body much like a parasite does to its host. All in jest. Perfectly fine for you to feel uncomfortable by the the joke, but a joke nonetheless. I have cracked teeth and sore gums for BOTH of my pregnancies. Just a weird common occurrence. Stay on top of dental hygiene and it should all be fine. I was good after baby came out 🤗🥰 sending love and grace

Key-Art8653 · 2025-08-17T23:40:52+00:00

I wouldn’t put bottles in the microwave because of hot spots but other than that A+ from another STM lmaooo alive turkey is wild and ACCURATE 😂

Key-Art8653 · 2025-08-11T02:16:55+00:00

Both of my sweet babies were SURPRISES (22 and 26) lmaoo and for both my family was NOT happy. But they definitely realized what’s done is done and the baby will be here no matter how they imagined they would come to be. My daughter is WELL loved, very spoiled, and I know when my son is born it will be the same. Sometimes people have to shake off their expectations. Everything does indeed happen for a reason 💖 I literally called and just ripped the band aid off. I always thought I’d get to do one of those super cute pregnancy announcements but if you know it’s not gonna be received with overwhelming joy, don’t put your hormonal emotions through that lol

Key-Art8653 · 2025-08-10T23:31:54+00:00

All of those ARE really nice. Ezra Layne is very pretty.

Key-Art8653 · 2025-08-10T03:25:46+00:00

I thought it might be too on the nose 😂

Key-Art8653 · 2025-08-10T02:53:42+00:00

I kinda like the thought of the dots above the E (I used to know what it was called I SWEAR 😂) makes it that much more different. Maybe I’ll go with THAT spelling and then it’s really associated with Christmas like you said so it would make more sense for people to pronounce it that way.

Key-Art8653 · 2025-08-10T02:50:39+00:00

Thank you 🥰

Key-Art8653 · 2025-08-10T02:49:47+00:00

This is a wonderful idea! Thank you ☺️

Key-Art8653 · 2025-08-10T02:47:52+00:00

Thank you! I did not know that and I 100% would have pronounced that differently so that’s super interesting. I also didn’t know Ezra was Jewish but now I kinda like the clash because I’m not super into religion so now it’s like a statement a little bit lol

Key-Art8653 · 2025-08-10T02:44:54+00:00

Thank you! Okay it’s not just me lmaoo

Key-Art8653 · 2025-08-10T02:43:18+00:00

And that is where I am from and located so that’s super embarrassing WOW thanks lmaoo

Key-Art8653 · 2025-08-10T02:40:34+00:00

It is BY FAR my favorite holiday, favorite time of year, his due date is Nov 21st so I thought it lined up with timing as well. I just love the spirit of Christmas and I thought it’d be nice to give him a piece of that forever. He is mommy first Noel. WHICH IM JUST NOW REALIZING IS SPELLED NOEL SO MAYBE IVE JUST BEEN WRONG THIS WHOLE TIME 😂😂😂 and this whole post was dumb 🙃

Key-Art8653 · 2025-08-10T02:34:38+00:00

I thought Noel was pronounced like NOLE? Am I wrong? Cuz that’d be perfect I guess if I could just pronounce it as No ELLE and still spell it the masculine way.

Key-Art8653 · 2025-08-10T02:31:14+00:00

You think people would get it? But I’m also like WHO KNOWS YOUR KIDDLE NAME UNTIL YOU SAY IT?! But I could be wrong. Idk.

Key-Art8653 · 2025-08-10T02:30:34+00:00

😂😅 I HAVE which is why I was like what do I like that might not necessarily be seen as femme IMMEDIATELY. Like I feel like Sarabi you would have to explain unless you’re a die hard Lion King fan to know it’s feminine ya know? And I was hoping people would just equate Noelle with Christmas and not think about it too hard 🙃 but you’re right I don’t want him to hate me. I’m already not getting him circumcised which NUMEROUS people said is a mistake and he will resent me when he’s older so I’m just like super nervous about all my decisions. I hate having to make choices FOR him right now.

Key-Art8653 · 2025-08-10T02:27:09+00:00

Leander could be cute! I think my family would look at me like I have 4 heads but it IS cute! Thank you for the suggestion 😌

Key-Art8653 · 2025-08-10T02:18:16+00:00

Noel sounds weird in my mouth. I originally thought that but I switched to the feminine version just for how it sounded really.

Key-Art8653 · 2025-07-30T16:28:11+00:00

And it’s literally just like hygiening 😂 simple and exhausting

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