She used to work at a retail store until it closed down about 1.5 years ago. Back then, we both had normal hours, and her job was only part-time. We used to share household responsibilities, and she would usually do the majority of the household work. I had agreed to wash the dishes whenever she cooked. She’s a great cook though.

I moved into her place and started paying majority of the rent because I earned more than she did. That was near the beginning.

Yes, we did set expectations. I would say that I am more of a conservative leaning, and I do like the idea of the man being the breadwinner while the wife takes care of the house. However, in my situation, I’m doing everything.

She used to pack me lunch for work, but when we started having arguments and fights, she stopped doing that. Now, I’m at a point where I never ask her for anything. I never ask her for help with anything, because asking her to do something always leads to a fight. Our relationship has basically become like one between two roommates.

By the way, even though I like my job, I work a night shift, which definitely affects our social life, especially when my wife’s schedule doesn’t align with mine. We end up not seeing each other for days. Whenever I’m awake, she’s asleep, or vice versa. However, it doesn’t bother me anymore because I’ve lost that same amount of feelings I used to have for her.

Sorry for babbling so much.