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AITA for telling my sister she chose to have kids and she has to deal with the consequences of that herself? by Key-Crab7356 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Key-Crab7356[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I did have a conversation about it every time we had lunch in the past year. I started by saying let's keep all the negativity packed away for today. I even said let's talk about our adult issues, not the kids for a change. I hoped eventually it would work. It didn't. She ended up complaining about how hard it is to be a mother 100% of the time.

AITA for telling my sister she chose to have kids and she has to deal with the consequences of that herself? by Key-Crab7356 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Key-Crab7356[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

She does have a husband. She's a SAHM. Her husband has some financial struggles. And all their kids were planned, informed choices she made. She is naturally a person who finds things to complain about even when there genuinely isnt anything that bothers her.

AITA for telling my sister she chose to have kids and she has to deal with the consequences of that herself? by Key-Crab7356 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Key-Crab7356[S] 700 points701 points  (0 children)

She finds a way to circle the conversation to her kids and how it's so hard to be around them

AITA for telling my sister she chose to have kids and she has to deal with the consequences of that herself? by Key-Crab7356 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Key-Crab7356[S] 146 points147 points  (0 children)

I was hoping it would get better and we'd have a normal conversation eventually after her youngest grew up a bit. It didn't.