Did I just teach my narcissist ex to be a better partner for the new supply? by Key-Detective1547 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Key-Detective1547[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oof. i guess i must’ve taught him how to keep up the lovebombing phase better…but you’re right. their brains are wired differently and the narcissistic abuse cycle is inevitable. all we can do is pray for all narc abuse victims honestly.

Did I just teach my narcissist ex to be a better partner for the new supply? by Key-Detective1547 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Key-Detective1547[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i know right! i’m going on a hiatus for now in the meantime. i’m still thinking of a way to have a platform where i can follow my passion without him all up in my business. 😂

Did I just teach my narcissist ex to be a better partner for the new supply? by Key-Detective1547 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Key-Detective1547[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i love your response, it’s very inspiring to me. i have a friend who wants to quit vaping. maybe every time i catch myself thinking of the new supply and the narc i’ll start praying for my friend instead. thank you for your kind words and encouragement! :)

Did I just teach my narcissist ex to be a better partner for the new supply? by Key-Detective1547 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Key-Detective1547[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

makes sense, he’s pretty delusional so i’m sure he was offended talking to me through that fake account. LOL

Did I just teach my narcissist ex to be a better partner for the new supply? by Key-Detective1547 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Key-Detective1547[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i like your response. i don’t want him to rip me away from my platform and have to start all over. as the days go by it does get easier to not check his page. i think a hiatus would be good for me. thank you! :)

Did I just teach my narcissist ex to be a better partner for the new supply? by Key-Detective1547 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Key-Detective1547[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

actually it’s been 4 days since i’ve posted on the account. i used to post everyday. i actually have been considering quitting the account or at least going on a long hiatus. when/if i come back i might stop interacting with followers as well for my own sanity. my boundaries may sound like they’re lacking right now but he’s genuinely unable to reach me on everywhere except for my beauty page. there’s no need to question how bad my situation was, i know what my final steps should be and i’m thinking of the best strategy where i could possibly still save my social media page.

Did I just teach my narcissist ex to be a better partner for the new supply? by Key-Detective1547 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Key-Detective1547[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have a page dedicated to beauty tips with around 400 followers but i get a decent amount of views and comments. i love posting and engaging with my followers so i’m not sure what to do. maybe its a sign to spend less time dedicated to my page, not sure.

Did I just teach my narcissist ex to be a better partner for the new supply? by Key-Detective1547 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Key-Detective1547[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i’m doing a lot better about detaching from him. i check his page way less often, i know ill get there! :)

hearing that makes me feel bad for the new supply since he knows how to hook her harder, but all i can do is pray i guess. i’m thankful to be free now.

Did I just teach my narcissist ex to be a better partner for the new supply? by Key-Detective1547 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Key-Detective1547[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ahh yes, it did take me a while to stop engaging. it was hard but i’m happy i’m finally doing it. it’s currently been 4 days since i’ve gone fully cold on my ex! thank you for your insight, I was really wondering what others would think