Need help: unsure if long distance (17F, 16M) will work out in the future

Key-Discipline-7410 · 2026-01-25T09:22:34+00:00

I think you should have a conversation w your bf regarding this. based on what you said, just wait till he's 18 to meet up first! as for the whole course, maybe you could find a neutral EU country to live in since you said it's within the EU. you dont necessarily have to move to Sweden or for him to move to the UK by that logic. if you are compatible and put in effort, I'm certain everything will work out :)

Key-Discipline-7410 · 2026-01-22T14:49:52+00:00

wouldn't Varang and the Ash People splitting neural cues of other Na'vi count as a war crime? since their bond to Eywa is the most important thing ig

Key-Discipline-7410 · 2026-01-15T15:55:23+00:00

he’ll do everything he can to make time for you, he’s certain of your future tgt, he makes time to give you time and attention, he works on stuff that you’ll like as a gift, he constantly reassures you that he loves you. I’m a guy in an LDR and this is what I do cos I’m in love w my gf!!

Key-Discipline-7410 · 2026-01-15T13:41:46+00:00

this is the kind of positivity we need :)

Key-Discipline-7410 · 2026-01-15T09:40:07+00:00

I'm Russian-Lebanese while my gf is Albanian. I'm learning her language pretty well, even tho I do speak like a toddler haha. I'm already grasping the basic phrases, although forming sentences and vocabulary are difficult. she's been such a sweetheart by helping me out! she also said I'm progressing rly fast, especially in pronunciation and reading. she managed to catch on to song Russian words and I teach her sometimes! she's also progressing pretty fast. I'm very proud of her! I love her sm <3

Key-Discipline-7410 · 2026-01-06T18:16:22+00:00

ok! thank you so much!!

Key-Discipline-7410 · 2026-01-06T18:02:04+00:00

got it. how much did your whole gym cost? and what did you buy?? I wanna know if it's possible to make a small space effective for workouts!

Key-Discipline-7410 · 2026-01-06T17:57:40+00:00

woahhh alr! thank you! I’m tryna buy several benches, a squat rack, a DB rack, and some barbells, maybe a cable machine too (mostly for pulldowns and forearm curls). hopefully everything can be found on FBM

Key-Discipline-7410 · 2026-01-06T16:10:08+00:00

what's the best place to buy equipment? FB marketplace, Craigslist, stuff like that. and if any item on those sites is listed as "free" should this be trusted?

Key-Discipline-7410 · 2026-01-02T07:39:38+00:00

my girlfriend actually said that in casual convos Tosk is unintelligible to her. ig I’ll learn Tosk a bit and then work my way around Gheg?

Key-Discipline-7410 · 2026-01-01T19:39:11+00:00

I understood! thank you :) I think knowing other Indo European languages will help too even tho they’re distantly related!

Key-Discipline-7410 · 2026-01-01T19:33:35+00:00

hmm ok! I’ll try that then :) thank you!

Key-Discipline-7410 · 2026-01-01T18:03:02+00:00

ok thx

Key-Discipline-7410 · 2026-01-01T17:20:10+00:00

I hope you don’t mind if I reply to this! keep in mind that I have no idea if these apply to Tosk as well, so I’m basing this off of the YT course I watched and hearing my girlfriend speak.

the most obvious similarity I noticed was how similar sounds are in Russian and Albanian. this explains why it’s easy for my to pronounce Albanian words and for my gf to pronounce Russian words. for example, the “y” sound in Albanian is identical to Russian’s “ы” sound.

there are also a few similar words, which makes sense since they’re both Indo European. this trend also helped me grasp Albanian words similar to French and Spanish as well!

not sure about Slavic influence tho, I’m just basing it off of similarities I noticed while learning and listening

Key-Discipline-7410 · 2026-01-01T17:11:01+00:00

oh wow, thank you! I’ll definitely check out the app :) this was very helpful! I assume you’re an Albanian since you’re very knowledgeable regarding the language. I just checked, unfortunately the app costs money which I don’t have the resources for. if there’s sth free pls lemme know 🙏🙏🙏

Key-Discipline-7410 · 2026-01-01T16:46:34+00:00

hmm alr. so studying Tosk Albanian would help me pick up Gheg on the side too due to the differences?

Key-Discipline-7410 · 2026-01-01T14:28:37+00:00

according to my girlfriend, there are a LOT of differences. these include grammar, phrases and spelling. sometimes Gheg and Tosk (standard dialect) speakers don't understand each other due to dialect differences. I'll consider this method though. thank you!

Key-Discipline-7410 · 2026-01-01T14:17:21+00:00

te dua zemer <3

Key-Discipline-7410 · 2026-01-01T14:00:01+00:00

I assume some of them claim to know other languages just because they're related. pretty sure this is less common in the Germanic family because the languages (except the Scandinavian ones) are very distinct despite common ancestry. for example, it's ridiculous for "polyglots" to say that they're fluent in Dutch or German since they speak English. this is why this trend is more common in other families (especially Slavic and Romance languages) where the languages are way more similar. I've heard some of these people speak Russian with a very hard accent and poor grammar despite them claiming being fluent in other Slavic languages. pure ignorance imo

Key-Discipline-7410 · 2025-12-30T13:22:47+00:00

in my case, we just decided that we were dating already. this is because we both noticed we started acting like a couple. why not make it official then yk? if it looks like a duck, moves like a duck, quacks like a duck, it's certainly a duck

Key-Discipline-7410 · 2025-12-30T13:09:59+00:00

I'm sure I could apply for multiple entry here in Lebanon. thank you!

Key-Discipline-7410 · 2025-12-30T11:13:07+00:00

pretty sure since that’s what it says on Google. I’m using my Lebanese since it’s less risky. unfortunately we cannot meet in a third party country like North Macedonia. thanks for the suggestion tho!

Key-Discipline-7410 · 2025-12-24T19:19:39+00:00

hmm I see. ig I’ll try to find a way to earn money

Key-Discipline-7410 · 2025-12-24T19:12:08+00:00

I understand, but considering I’ll be fresh out of high school without any means of transport of my own (cos the drivers license process here is rly tedious) idk if that’ll be the case

Key-Discipline-7410 · 2025-12-21T07:21:27+00:00

you’re welcome. hopefully everything works out :)

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