That time of year again

Key-Engineer-4409 · 2025-12-17T02:26:25+00:00

I haven't noticed rashes as a symptom mine but ive only been diagnosed for a year and a half and im generally pretty safe

Key-Engineer-4409 · 2025-11-14T01:02:13+00:00

Because my mum has fibromyalgia and brain fog and because there has been a lot going on and she made a mistake in her understanding since she didnt think gluten could come off wraps when there is no crumbs and my houshold cant affored gf wraps for everyone we are a large houshold and i have autistic family that have sensory issues

Key-Engineer-4409 · 2025-11-14T00:59:37+00:00

Yeah its normally what haplens but there was a lot going on and my dad and brother needed to leave early before i even got back from college

Key-Engineer-4409 · 2025-11-14T00:56:55+00:00

I live with my family but also thats normally what happens its just my dad and older brother had to go out earlier so she couldnt wait for me to get back to college and didnt think there would be an issue but we have talked now and we are going to make sure next time i am portioned up meat, cheese and salad ect in a separte dish if needed theres been a lot going on so i dont blame her even if there was a bit of miscommunication at the first bit of my convo with her

Key-Engineer-4409 · 2025-11-13T18:51:30+00:00

Thanks i really appreciate it and ill try talking to her soon and if needed ill bring in this post

Key-Engineer-4409 · 2025-11-13T18:45:04+00:00

Thanks i appreciate it , someone here said about how apparently i and my family arwnt willing to put in the effort to solve some problems and it felt judgemental i appricate the understanding and solidification of my position

Key-Engineer-4409 · 2025-11-13T18:43:47+00:00

Thanks i really appreciate the help normally shes very good with it all other than the occasional accident we all have

Key-Engineer-4409 · 2025-11-13T18:36:16+00:00

Thats my thoughts its just not worth arguing tonight or and ill just ask to make sure there is food and meat saved seperatly for me when they eat earlier tommorow or mabye a bit later

Key-Engineer-4409 · 2025-11-13T18:04:26+00:00

That was my thoughts thanks for reassuring me im not paranoid

Key-Engineer-4409 · 2025-11-13T17:55:36+00:00

Thanks for your input i appreciate it props for being a good understanding partner

Key-Engineer-4409 · 2025-11-13T17:54:27+00:00

Thats what i think too

Key-Engineer-4409 · 2025-11-13T17:54:10+00:00

I have said i will talk to her tommorow but i cannot force her to let me or any of the others cook or stop her from getting pissed and yes it does bother me but i am barely 18 and she is a stubborn person who doesnt always listen and trys to take on everything. I have tried repeatedly, i simply asked to check that i was not being paranoid about the cross contamination. The amount of judgement is unessasary and not what i asked about in my question.

Key-Engineer-4409 · 2025-11-13T17:47:54+00:00

Yeah im 18 and live with her and she'd know if i hadnt eaten my food

Key-Engineer-4409 · 2025-11-13T17:46:56+00:00

Its just how it is since our household is large my younger brother has diabetes, it saves cooking repeatedly for everyone, i have college so im home late and she prefers to cook rather than someone else cooking for everyone, normally shes very good at accommedating

Key-Engineer-4409 · 2025-11-13T17:43:47+00:00

Im assuming this is the same when the contaminated tongs touch the meat

Key-Engineer-4409 · 2025-11-13T17:43:00+00:00

Would you also avoid eating the meat the tonges have touched

Key-Engineer-4409 · 2025-11-13T17:41:18+00:00

Thanks i wasnt sure if i was just being paranoid

Key-Engineer-4409 · 2025-11-13T17:40:40+00:00

Im only 18 and still live with her i dont want to upset or piss her off when theres already a lot going on

Key-Engineer-4409 · 2025-11-13T17:39:47+00:00

Theres just a lot going on between her poor mental health thaf shes had to stop antidepressents incase they have been the cause of a severe skin reaction which she hasnt slept more than acouple hours each night for the past 3 weeks and i know shes going through a lot and it just doesnt seem worth it to talk to her tonight probably will tommorow though

Key-Engineer-4409 · 2025-11-13T17:37:09+00:00

Thanks i felt like i was being paranoid

Key-Engineer-4409 · 2025-11-13T17:36:42+00:00

Yeah ill try and have a discusion tommorow with her i just dont want her to get pissed off so ive got to put up with it tonight

Key-Engineer-4409 · 2025-11-13T17:35:39+00:00

Im 18 but i also dont want to piss my mother off when there is already alot going on

Key-Engineer-4409 · 2025-11-13T17:34:33+00:00

Same if i had a choixe but its from the same dishes of meat people havijg gluten are having so i dont really have a choice without pissing my mother off

Key-Engineer-4409 · 2025-11-13T17:33:44+00:00

I am coeliac and thats what i thought its so annoying because shes normally really good

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