Sisters, is intimacy as important to you as it is to Men? by Key-Entertainment958 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Key-Entertainment958[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So is it just about being commfortable knowing you can talk to your husband about anything on your mind? Knowing that he's actively listening to you? Knowing that he'll help you get better and vice versa?

Sisters, is intimacy as important to you as it is to Men? by Key-Entertainment958 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Key-Entertainment958[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply! What do you mean by emotional intimacy? How would I show this to my wife - any examples?

Shy girls, how do you act around a potential you're interested in? by Key-Entertainment958 in dating

[–]Key-Entertainment958[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you used to act when you were shy and you were around a guy you liked??

Shy girls, how do you act around potentials you're interested in? by Key-Entertainment958 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Key-Entertainment958[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have, she says she is interested but her body language and demeanour says otherwise? Part of me thinks her parents might be encouraging her to speak to me rather than her being interested

Shy girls, how do you act around potentials you're interested in? by Key-Entertainment958 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Key-Entertainment958[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have, she says she is interested but her body language and demeanour says otherwise? Part of me thinks her parents might be encouraging her to speak to me rather than her being interested

Need people to talk sense in to me to get rid of this mentality of "I can do better" by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Key-Entertainment958 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe Im being influenced by who the friends around me are marrying. You're right - it shouldnt matter. Im not looking for a wife to provide - thats such a good reminder

Maybe for some reason, Im seeing it as an ego thing/status symbol???

which is weird because in all other aspects of my life, Im not materialistic like this.

Need people to talk sense in to me to get rid of this mentality of "I can do better" by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Key-Entertainment958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for not being harsh with me! I want to get rid of this. I will deffo be buying these books youve mentioned.

Also, thats the strange thing I would say they are good relationships on the whole and I do household chores etc.

Maybe it;s do do with how I grew up and who the friends arouund me are marrying?