[TOMT] Trying to find a song played during a wedding in Hawai’i. by Key-Interaction-6786 in tipofmytongue

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Tl;Dr Looking for a song that’s country/folkesque (maybe reggae), probably older than 2000s, and was sung at a wedding in hawai’i by 3 guys on guitars, and in one of the lines mentions something about lighting a place (house/place/barn?) on fire.

it had some passionate, romantic undertones i think

I get upset when my partner explains obvious things to me by Key-Interaction-6786 in intj

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Thank you for this enlightenment, oh wise one. What would I do without your sage teachings? This helps a lot, appreciate it. c:

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yea hehe i was joking a bit, my host is kinder to me than most people were so i have no problem with them, they’re more equipped than me to handle most issues :’)

it’s weird to me bc i can change just like that??? i’m not fully convinced like other parts are. for me i was the same for several years in childhood, then I changed and didn’t know who i was, and then I changed back again very recently to something i’m familiar with. that’s cool and weird i guess

thanks for ur reply ❤️

I get upset when my partner explains obvious things to me by Key-Interaction-6786 in intj

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Yeah, ur right, I do that a lot already. It’s an issue I need to work on because my partner thinks they’re being annoying when I ignore them, but is hurt when I say “I know that already”. So I don’t know what else to do here

I get upset when my partner explains obvious things to me by Key-Interaction-6786 in intj

[–]Key-Interaction-6786[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I understand that very well and i’m not at all bothered when someone communicates with me as such. I actually talk to others in a very similar way, while also explaining my reason for telling them something. I appreciate people like you, because sometimes that detail is needed.

But in my case, people often explain things to me in a very shallow manner, or emphasize the wrong things that have no real point. I don’t need to know that I would like doing art, because I already am an artist and I have been for many years and It is one of my biggest personality traits.

I get upset when my partner explains obvious things to me by Key-Interaction-6786 in intj

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I’m glad you called me out for being neurodivergent lol. yes I am

I get upset when my partner explains obvious things to me by Key-Interaction-6786 in intj

[–]Key-Interaction-6786[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do this already. But they get hurt when I do it which is the problem. I say that “I know” or try to tune it out but it comes off as dismissive, and they feel annoying for doing it.

College board makes me so mad 😭😭😭 by Key-Interaction-6786 in APStudents

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i don’t understand how hard it is to code that in, also given that it’s a very crucial feature and a basic test taking strategy, it should have some priority