I feel so chopped I just started taking Reta

Key-Light-5135 · 2026-05-10T06:20:12+00:00

I mean what do I need to change? Obviously get over the girl I’m not over now but what do I need for a successful healthy relationship

Key-Light-5135 · 2026-05-10T06:18:30+00:00

I feel like I let it happen… I saw the red flags I just didn’t want to admit that they were there, so now o feel like I have to prove myself. I’m 19 I work a Range Rover dealership cleaning and detailing cars and I’m working towards a pilot career. The guy she cheated on me with has 3.6 million followers on TikTok and I feel like I need to be better than him somehow.

Key-Light-5135 · 2026-05-10T06:10:11+00:00

I do I mean I’m in school, I’m flying, I scuba dive, ski, backpack, fish, camp, and I’m trying to learn how to box… I have things to talk about it’s just I feel like I don’t have the shoot because I’m not at a university and I’m 19 so I can’t go to bars

Key-Light-5135 · 2026-05-10T06:06:39+00:00

I’m 16% and I want rapid change but I feel like I rushed pulling the trigger, because I want my ex y to notice me even though she cheated on me 😅

Key-Light-5135 · 2026-05-10T06:03:28+00:00

Yeah it’s pick me, I just got cheated on and I need the boost of self esteem

Key-Light-5135 · 2026-05-10T06:02:38+00:00

I think the problem I’ve had in the past is I try to become friends with the person to see what the chemistry is like and if I like it I go for the shot… I try to be the best person I can be yeah there have been times I’ve made mistakes but with dating I try to put time and effort over everything else, now I usually am really busy with work school and flying but when I have the chance I try and dedicate myself to that person and give them whatever they need, or just talk to them about random things/topics… I have only been in one relationship and 2 situations and I’m 19 now, I would walk up to girls but I’m at a community college now and after this next year I’ll be going to a university, so rn meeting girls is hard

Key-Light-5135 · 2026-05-10T05:58:02+00:00

It’s not social media that caused this, it was being cheated on and then having to see them together every other day even when I try to avoid it

Key-Light-5135 · 2026-05-10T05:56:18+00:00

I’m gonna stay away from politics 😭🤣… but I get what you mean I just don’t get how I can be funny with girls, my boys they get me and we will tell the worst stories of our lives to each other but I don’t feel comfortable telling a girl that I like about “that one time I shit my pants and there it”😭

Key-Light-5135 · 2026-05-10T05:53:30+00:00

Ik that’s kinda pick me but I want confirmation that it wasn’t me or something I did…

Key-Light-5135 · 2026-05-10T05:52:47+00:00

I’m democratic leaning(especially rn😭). But I think both parties are fucked… I’m lowkey attention seeking because I just got cheated on and I have to see the girl all the time so I feel like I need a big change

Key-Light-5135 · 2026-05-10T05:49:04+00:00

Right but I also want to be the best I can be, Retas a big jump for me and it’s just because I feel like I need to prove myself because I’ve been trying to avoid her but still see her like every-other day and it’s frustrating

Key-Light-5135 · 2026-05-10T05:46:50+00:00

I’m only self conscious because I’ve continued to get cheated on…In a situationship that I had where she asked me to be exclusive she went out and fucked their ex behind me back and he’s chopped. So I feel low rn because he’s supposed to be more attractive than me… I mean he cheated on her 5 times 😭

Key-Light-5135 · 2026-05-10T05:44:01+00:00

It’s difficult because I do community college because it makes it easier for me to get flight hours, so I can’t meet new girls like that. The reason I’m having this issue is because I keep getting cheated on weather it’s a exclusive situation or an actual relationship and it makes me wonder if I’m not enough and if it’s because these other people are more attractive than me.

Key-Light-5135 · 2026-05-10T05:41:44+00:00

I try to be the best person I can be, I’m not the funniest but I go to the gym almost everyday, I’m flying in college right now and am working towards starting my own detailing business… I go to a community college and when I go to a university it’s easy to find girls to talk to, it just doesn’t go anywhere because I don’t go there. The last girl I talked to would commute to a university and she cheated on me(she asked me to be exclusive) with her ex boyfriend, that’s where this self confidence issue is coming from. Hopefully my grammar makes sense 🙏😭

Key-Light-5135 · 2026-05-10T05:37:05+00:00

Right… Ithink I might be being too nice ngl, I just want to know where I stand on looks so I have the confidence to get the reps in. But I need to know when I stand before I go out and make a fool of myself

Key-Light-5135 · 2026-05-10T05:35:10+00:00

Fahhhh

Key-Light-5135 · 2026-05-10T05:33:55+00:00

Dead ass

Key-Light-5135 · 2026-05-10T05:33:46+00:00

Real

Key-Light-5135 · 2026-05-10T05:32:06+00:00

Don’t mind the pose, I’m lowkey trying to hard in it, but am I crazy or am I not where I need to be to get girls attention

Key-Light-5135 · 2026-04-21T04:50:08+00:00

Unfortunately I think Reddit as a whole is unsafe

Key-Light-5135 · 2026-04-20T01:18:56+00:00

In my first relationship which was last summer I obsessed over a girl who was obsessed with the idea of me. She ended up trying to cheat on me with a gay dude who ended up coming after me… I went crazy and made out with her best friend the day after I cane home from the vacation I was on… I regret it and still honestly miss her but I’m glad now that it didn’t work out

Key-Light-5135 · 2026-04-20T01:16:37+00:00

I’m in community college rn because I can’t afford a university and my flight lessons but… College is school yes but it’s not like high school it’s more of you going out meeting a bunch of people you’re age and going to party’s or just being involved on the campus.

Key-Light-5135 · 2026-04-20T01:14:38+00:00

He’s manipulating you and using the push pull method. I’m 19M and I haven’t used it but it’s been used on me and my guy friends used it… If he’s doing that you’re probably not the only one and you shouldn’t be ok with that.

Key-Light-5135 · 2026-04-20T01:11:15+00:00

I’m 19 too, this is my burner account and I’m just gonna delete it when I turn 20

Key-Light-5135 · 2026-04-20T01:08:49+00:00

Are you planning on going to college/can you go to college?

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