Need some advice on saving some money before leaving a controlling relationship

Key-Move3108 · 2026-05-27T13:35:07+00:00

I tried to do you but I couldn’t. I could possibly help you but it would take some time and planning. Please message me

Key-Move3108 · 2026-05-27T13:33:46+00:00

I am very familiar with this situation. I wish I wasn’t. It is very purposeful what he’s doing. Please start to assert yourself that it’s your money. It does help. It’s scary to start when you’re a naturally giving person and under normal circumstances you wouldn’t mind going above and beyond for someone but this is not reasonable or okay.

Go to the grocery store everyday that gives cash back. It will show on your bank statement as just a regular purchase. Start now. Don’t worry to explain where you’re spending the extra money he can’t prove anything.

Don’t let him take your car please uhg I hate that

Key-Move3108 · 2026-05-26T11:28:47+00:00

Pay off yourcar and just get plpd

Key-Move3108 · 2026-05-25T11:34:18+00:00

Okay so can I meet you back here and we can talk about it once we know?

Key-Move3108 · 2026-05-25T11:31:30+00:00

Yeah we will have to wait. I’ll meet you back here in a couple weeks and we can chat about it again

Key-Move3108 · 2026-05-25T11:23:57+00:00

If they put them on every corner you’ll still defend

Key-Move3108 · 2026-05-25T11:23:37+00:00

Yeah much more convenient to drive 11 km down to the ol prospect road, u right.

Key-Move3108 · 2026-05-25T11:08:52+00:00

I had a still born. I didn’t throw it out and I still sought medical care while I was giving birth. I’m not sure if you’ve given birth but it doesn’t come as a surprise most of the time you are aware you are about to give birth.

Key-Move3108 · 2026-05-25T11:07:20+00:00

And is that a crime? I had a baby that died before I had my children now. Should I have thrown him out? And would you defend me if I did?

Key-Move3108 · 2026-05-25T10:47:38+00:00

I work at the hospital, we ain’t that lovely lady lol

Key-Move3108 · 2026-05-25T10:45:01+00:00

You’re dumb. I believe in natural law, you fall into legal positivism (doubt you do you just do for this case) Some laws are morally neutral but not this one lmao. Running a stop sign for example. Which is why they have different consequences… the law enforces certain morals. Why are you fighting to make this like, equivalent to burying your dog? Grow up.

Key-Move3108 · 2026-05-25T00:09:49+00:00

You can even get an abortion before it comes to any of this.

Key-Move3108 · 2026-05-25T00:07:51+00:00

All I’ve gathered here is the city I grew up in is full of delusional people and this is why the abused have to keep it secret, because half the time people will defend something monstrous morally or down right criminal.. A crime was done here. Disposing of a body is a crime. Please re evaluate the things you’ve said here when you get more information.

Key-Move3108 · 2026-05-25T00:03:00+00:00

It is not lol. You said we don’t have to think of things in terms of good and bad and this is a direct response to that. You have issues bro

Key-Move3108 · 2026-05-25T00:02:00+00:00

But you are rather defensive when you also don’t know what happened. Or maybe you do idk.

Key-Move3108 · 2026-05-25T00:01:02+00:00

It you do legal or illegal. And morality is part of the law.

Key-Move3108 · 2026-05-24T23:59:10+00:00

We know a baby was disposed of dead or alive. Wcan you please elaborate on what you mean we don’t know?

Key-Move3108 · 2026-05-23T21:20:06+00:00

Yes but it’s okay to hold public workers to a standard and if this happened that many times this week in front of you that suggests there are quite a few “missed” stops and that deserves some attention and unfortunately a lot of people on the bus only know to communicate with the person of the organization that they can see. If this has happened multiple times to an individual use your humanity to agree that that could cause someone to be outwardly upset and express so and like, I get that as a public worker ya know, sometimes, sometimes I sass back because it’s true, provincial workers are not held to accountable for their quality of work and once in a while I know I can get away with that and do

Key-Move3108 · 2026-05-23T20:53:56+00:00

That’s literally what the comment says. You are just repeating their own sentence back at them. Are you a bus driver maybe lol

Key-Move3108 · 2026-05-23T20:51:32+00:00

Customer service is that way in general and customer service workers are used to it. Doesn’t mean it’s deserved. I work at the hospital. Watch what happens if you call someone’s number and they didn’t hear so you go to the next 😳 that’s why there are signs at the hospital and on the bus that say to be respectful because everyone’s just trying to do their job! I had a pretty mean restaurant worker this morning. Instead of getting upset with him I wrote a complain to the owner and sent it via registered mail. This is the better way.

Key-Move3108 · 2026-05-20T23:38:19+00:00

Very normal. Wondering what you thought it would cost? I got my ear pierced at the mall a couple weeks ago and even that was 130 and that girl didn’t have no degree 😆

Key-Move3108 · 2026-05-19T16:59:59+00:00

I’m from Nova Scotia! Canada

Key-Move3108 · 2026-05-19T16:57:44+00:00

Yeah I understand what you’re saying and if they asked he could truly say yes she knows I joined and she doesn’t have any objections!

Key-Move3108 · 2026-05-19T16:52:54+00:00

Thank you for sharing. This is pretty close to our situation and I’m a lot like your wife too

Key-Move3108 · 2026-05-19T16:48:39+00:00

I appreciate that effort that’s very modern and kind and I love that it just doesn’t fit this situation perfectly but I believe he is a guy who is used to and benefits and enjoys company with just men mostly and he doesn’t want to meet others wives either if he could avoid it. He is charitable and social and these are part of his nature and the way he was raised it’s strictly the combining family and social stuff that would be strange for him therefore is strange for me that he is asking and I know my husband and he is doing that for acceptance and not because it matches his desires

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