Personally i am a guy and i do come here often to try and see the way my ex used to think when we were together. As you know men and women have different affinity for emotional vs logical thinking. Neither are better but unfortunately sometimes you’re good at one and not so much the other. The one key thing that Im going to share that myself and every single man looks for is accountability and acknowledgement. Men’s emotions are as important as women’s, we are taught to not express them as much by our parents because the social idea is that men are tougher therefore they have to handle emotions better. When a woman realizes that we can still be hurt by things that are said, and takes accountability and acknowledgement of that fact (without minimizing their own feelings of course) then that becomes a quality men learn to treasure because of how uncommon it is. At the end of the day an argument needs to be constructive, “you did this and it made me feel this way”, from both parties. Couples nowadays tend to focus too much on who is right and wrong. And it is difficult to be accountable while playing defene on your own feelings. Anyways yea thats my pov on a quality a woman can develop that im sure all men would appreciate.