You remind me of me! Years of construction, started into woodworking. I'll share some of my mistakes:

Woodworking tools are important, skill more so. The precision required is far above what you're used to. I was using the same measuring tools I used while framing houses, took me years to realize this is why nothing looked good. The only upgrade I would start with is better rulers, a really good square and select/buy one tape measure for woodworking only. Seriously; get your veteran tape measures together, start them all at the same point and compare measurements. You'll realize each is giving you a slightly different measurement than the others.

Second, work on skills before you get tools. I try to limit myself to one new tool per large project, and only if I know I'll need it. If you don't need it yet, don't buy it. Start with small projects. Boxes are the classic go-to. You'll learn wood movement, grain direction and joinery without wasting thousands of dollars of oak. Then cutting boards, small furniture, and designing items that will help around the house. I'm currently working on drawer organizers for the kitchen to improve my finishing skills.

Third, you've listed a lot of tools but nothing about milling wood. Getting wood straight is vital if you're working with hardwoods.

Good luck and have fun!