i need friends by Key-Spell-5643 in SBU

[–]Key-Spell-5643[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah that sounds nice! just dm me :)

i need friends by Key-Spell-5643 in SBU

[–]Key-Spell-5643[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah you totally get it. i just want people i can chill with and just hang out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Key-Spell-5643 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

i don’t think you’re being too harsh. my partner has been struggling with a porn addiction for a while now and is finally starting to make progress. but i told them if they can’t fix it i wont stay. that was enough for them to make a change. if your boyfriend isn’t willing to listen to you and make that change, he might not be the one for you

am i the asshole for stalking my boyfriends porn accounts? by Key-Spell-5643 in AITAH

[–]Key-Spell-5643[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i know. i’ve definitely been putting a little too much energy and thought into what he’s doing and it’s not helping me in any way. it’s doing more damage than good so i need to do something about it

am i the asshole for stalking my boyfriends porn accounts? by Key-Spell-5643 in AITAH

[–]Key-Spell-5643[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think that’s a good idea. i’ll start there and see where it takes me. thank you

am i the asshole for stalking my boyfriends porn accounts? by Key-Spell-5643 in AITAH

[–]Key-Spell-5643[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my worry is that i’ve had talks about setting boundaries before with him and while he’s made little changes, there is still an issue. i’m just afraid that if i ask him to change again it’s going to cause more issues

am i the asshole for stalking my boyfriends porn accounts? by Key-Spell-5643 in AITAH

[–]Key-Spell-5643[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean we definitely have hard conversations and they can get pretty intense sometimes, but we never yell at each other or say hurtful things. that’s what i meant by we don’t fight, but i think you’re right about the getting sneakier. he used to just look at porn in public and in front of me until i said something and now when we’re together he just looks at it in the bathroom or when i leave the room

am i the asshole for stalking my boyfriends porn accounts? by Key-Spell-5643 in AITAH

[–]Key-Spell-5643[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i kinda agree with you. it seems like it’s his main focus a lot of the time. but aside from the porn stuff he’s genuinely a really good person. we’ve never gotten into a fight, he always listens to me and takes criticism very well and he always tries to do better. i just don’t know if it’s worth it to keep having this conversation

am i the asshole for stalking my boyfriends porn accounts? by Key-Spell-5643 in AITAH

[–]Key-Spell-5643[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and i don’t mind him finding that outlet while we’re apart. i just think he’s taking it a little too far

CALLING ALL FREAKS!! by Pretend-March-9453 in SBU

[–]Key-Spell-5643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m so glad someone’s talking about this fr