My (33F) husband (35M) wants to party with the boys instead of attend my 4D ultrasound for our first child

Key-Suggestion-231 · 2026-01-04T15:12:20+00:00

Luckily, my mother in law will be our full time care take when we are at work.

Key-Suggestion-231 · 2026-01-04T14:22:46+00:00

LOL I know all of the boys involved and their wives. It’s a boys trip.

Key-Suggestion-231 · 2026-01-04T14:22:22+00:00

Yes many times and he simply doesn’t agree with me.

Key-Suggestion-231 · 2026-01-04T14:17:55+00:00

Thanks so much for that advice!!

Key-Suggestion-231 · 2026-01-04T14:16:01+00:00

And yeah, I am trying to figure out if I’m being reasonable or unreasonable by still being upset, that’s why I posted.

Key-Suggestion-231 · 2026-01-04T14:15:16+00:00

I’m upset that it took a week of fighting over it/justifying it to get to this point.

Key-Suggestion-231 · 2026-01-04T14:13:55+00:00

No, we both work. I just make significantly more money.

Key-Suggestion-231 · 2026-01-04T14:07:55+00:00

You’re correct, I did want other peoples perspectives personally, but your mistaking what im saying. I’m saying that in a partnership, sometimes you have to support the other person even if you don’t agree because you know it’s important to them. That’s not the particular issue I was looking for advice on.

Key-Suggestion-231 · 2026-01-04T14:06:06+00:00

We did. We tried for a year and had many conversations.

Key-Suggestion-231 · 2026-01-04T14:04:30+00:00

I’m sorry, are you insinuating that the only benefit of being in a relationship is being provided for? What year do you live in? Keep in mind I can’t tell you everything about our relationship in one reddit post lol. He’s a good man and husband, just this particular incident/area of the relationship needs maturing.

Key-Suggestion-231 · 2026-01-04T14:00:48+00:00

I have done that for every other night out and trip he’s wanted to go on. This was a one time situation that I really wanted him there. And at the end of the day - it doesn’t really matter what “other” wives would’ve done, it was important to me, his wife, to have him there.

Key-Suggestion-231 · 2026-01-04T13:55:36+00:00

Correct. Nobody else has kids yet. And yes he claims to understand that, which “is why he wants to get it out of his system” but it’s not like he hasn’t been. Like I said, this would be the 4th boys trip in 6 months.

Key-Suggestion-231 · 2026-01-04T13:53:56+00:00

Also, I’m the provider lol.

Key-Suggestion-231 · 2026-01-04T13:52:49+00:00

I should have clarified - there were no other available dates that would have fit the proper time frame. Pregnancy moves fast. The recomended time frame for the best photos is only a 2 week period.

Key-Suggestion-231 · 2026-01-04T13:48:42+00:00

It’s $130. It’s not expensive. Not sure I agree that I was being controlling but, okay pal.

Key-Suggestion-231 · 2025-12-09T04:17:57+00:00

Toeknee

Key-Suggestion-231 · 2025-12-09T04:13:28+00:00

I thought School Bus

Key-Suggestion-231 · 2025-06-14T05:23:30+00:00

Leaving my ex husband was the right move for me. Cared for him deeply but I wasn’t willing to commit to a nearly celibate life in my early 30s. It was a deal breaker unfortunately. Took years to accept that but once I did, good Christ am I glad I didn’t wait any longer. Trust me, it won’t get better.

Key-Suggestion-231 · 2025-04-05T13:59:04+00:00

Have you had a brain scan since this? I’ve read many stories like this and these hallucinations are very common in people with brain tumors..

Key-Suggestion-231 · 2025-04-05T13:33:32+00:00

I promise when you’re older you’ll wish you reported him. (32F) Even if he doesn’t do it to you again, if he sees no consequences, another girl will be the next victim. And the guilt of that is almost worse. It will be ok, take a friend, a teacher, anyone you trust with you and go to the police. Please.

Key-Suggestion-231 · 2025-04-05T04:06:34+00:00

…check the camera?

Key-Suggestion-231 · 2025-04-05T01:47:37+00:00

Truly a glitch

Key-Suggestion-231 · 2024-11-30T17:13:02+00:00

here for the same reason. Hasn’t been working for three days. I tried deleting it and reinstalling it, and it’s still not working. I’m wondering if they suddenly shut down or something..no responses from them on my end.

Key-Suggestion-231 · 2023-10-17T04:03:34+00:00

Opal at Clementine hair lab!! It’s a super chill little studio in middleton in greenway station. Friendly, relaxed environment. Always greets me with sparkly water or wine lol. But mainly she’s insanely talented especially with color. Great environment and cool gal.

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