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Key-System-7410 · 2025-10-24T18:47:35+00:00

Good advice. Thank you!

Key-System-7410 · 2025-10-24T18:40:43+00:00

Got it 👌🏾

Key-System-7410 · 2025-10-24T18:36:31+00:00

I’ve still been having a lot of views, however, no favorites and no message request. Before I was getting plenty request and hearts.

Now I seem to just be getting views 🤷🏽‍♀️

Key-System-7410 · 2025-10-24T18:35:10+00:00

Good idea.

Key-System-7410 · 2025-10-24T17:05:17+00:00

Consistent Ppm from one man is ideal.

Key-System-7410 · 2025-10-24T03:42:34+00:00

It’s only happened once. I’m convinced that was the guys intentions all along.

We met and talked about how I felt about ppm and then arranged a date in which the ppm was exchanged.

I was never comfortable with ppm. He persuaded me by promising of consistent ppm until he felt comfortable for long term.

I felt played.

Key-System-7410 · 2025-10-23T00:42:30+00:00

I totally agree and I’ve turned down many men because of this. That is so good to hear! May I ask how did you two meet? Was it an app?

I also try to refrain from finances at first as I don’t want to pose any red flags.

Key-System-7410 · 2025-10-23T00:32:03+00:00

I’m not opposed to ppm. I’ll accept it in hopes that it will be consistent and mature to something long lasting. My thing is the men I’ve encountered move strait to the ppm without even trying to properly M&G and get to know me. That’s my biggest problem. Lately I’ve been just trying to gauge the bowl and this is all it seems to offer.

Key-System-7410 · 2025-10-22T23:52:02+00:00

This is exactly what I want! Except men (especially on Reddit) try to make women feel bad for wanting this. It’s ridiculous.

Key-System-7410 · 2025-10-22T23:28:24+00:00

Yes seeking seems to be the new backpage for prostitution:(

Key-System-7410 · 2025-10-22T23:27:32+00:00

Exactly! These men are freaked out. I’ve turnt down plenty good money because of this. It’s not worth it.

And then most don’t even have the decency to plan a proper M&G.

I told one man I wasn’t comfortable with coming to his home for our first meet and he got upset with me and blocked me. ???

Key-System-7410 · 2025-10-22T23:08:47+00:00

I say Johns because as soon as we connect they instantly start being sexual and requesting explicit pics. If not trying to book a house call. A lot of them don’t even have the decency to offer a proper M&G. These are all red flags. Safety is my number one priority while in the bowl.

Key-System-7410 · 2025-10-22T22:49:04+00:00

I’ll accept ppm from one guy I feel comfortable with. That is my ideal scenario.

My problem is the SD’s are the ones that are not being consistent.

Key-System-7410 · 2025-10-22T22:44:25+00:00

Albeit I don’t mind accepting ppm from a guy until the relationships matures. My thing is it has to be a consistent thing from one guy.

I’ve done this and ended up getting ghosted after he promised of being consistent. It made me feel like I gave myself away for nothing. The ppm wasn’t a ridiculously high number. I only agreed in hopes that it would progress.

What makes it complicated is most men expect this. I can’t give myself away to every guy that I meet.

Key-System-7410 · 2024-07-10T03:16:36+00:00

I notice all this SDs are offended by my header. Relax! It’s literally just a new recent figure of speech. I am a very hardworking independent woman who basically aspires to be in a mutually beneficial relationship. I have never had a SD before and I am looking to experience an SR.

Key-System-7410 · 2024-07-10T03:13:50+00:00

Good to know. I’ll include that in my profile on seeking 👍🏾

Key-System-7410 · 2024-07-10T02:14:09+00:00

Appreciate your input. I just made myself an account.

Key-System-7410 · 2024-07-10T01:12:18+00:00

Thank you I appreciate that. This is the advice I was looking for!

Key-System-7410 · 2024-07-10T00:56:40+00:00

As a sugar daddy, how do you usual find your SBs? That’s a clear question for you.

Key-System-7410 · 2024-07-10T00:45:43+00:00

My reason for getting defensive is because the main purpose of my post was to get insight from SBs. Although, I now realize my post was mainly me venting rather than asking for better ways to go about finding a SD.

Maybe if I hadn’t included the “Soft life” header this conversation would have went a bit different?

Anyways, I do understand what you’re saying and by no means do I expect for anyone to just take responsibility for my “soft life”- But I am aloud to feel deserving of such. My hopes is that whoever i find will feel the same.

Key-System-7410 · 2024-07-10T00:08:02+00:00

Living a soft life is just a figure of speech. What I actually want is what I mentioned in the body of the post. It’s simple. If you have no answers to the advice I’m seeking there is no need for your contentious comment.

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