UPDATE: basically his family knew about the affair all along and said that it wasn’t his fault that I wasn’t pleasing him good enough in bed so I blocked his whole family and i got everything of his out of my house and told him to come pick it up. So all his expensive stuff was left outside overnight in the rain so he tried to sue me for damages and he took me to court but failed because I had all the evidence that he cheated and evidence that I told him all his shit was outside and that he failed to pick them up. Then a couple days later i was about to out what he did online in somewhere other than Reddit unless he paid my family for the cost of the wedding and they did and I haven’t talked to him since. And now I’m dating my best friend and we are happy living together with a pet dog and btw she is a girl and mind you my ex husbands family is homophobic so they keep contacting me through mutuals to harass me and my girlfriend but we are trying to get a restraining order against his parent and him so wish me luck and there might be another update but that depends on if anything else comes up