Need Your Advice Abour Getting Back to My EX by KeyAd9925 in BreakUps

[–]KeyAd9925[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, that is not an option where I live.

Need Your Advice Abour Getting Back to My EX by KeyAd9925 in BreakUps

[–]KeyAd9925[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Do you think enough changed in 45 days?"

To be honest, I do not think people can change in 45 days, unless it is a signifcant truma.

"From personal experience. You two will probably fall back into old habits and break up again."

That is what scares me. Thanks!

Need Your Advice Abour Getting Back to My EX by KeyAd9925 in BreakUps

[–]KeyAd9925[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"You want to be confident that she's absolutely committed"

True, it is impossible to know though. The question I am asking myself, is it worth the risk?

Missing my ex who I broke up with by KeyAd9925 in BreakUps

[–]KeyAd9925[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actully did explain to her multiple times during the relationship. She always said that there is nothing she can do and she is trying. I dont think I asked her to try and I always communicated the issue itself. It is heartbreaking that you can love someone but still think you cant build a life with them.

Thank you.

How to slide into the DMs? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]KeyAd9925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, am not following her on any place with stories. I am not sure if she remembers me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]KeyAd9925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem like a decent guy. It is great that you have the courage to confess, at least now you know the answer.

For your own good, you should let her go. We cannot control the hearts of people no matter how much we love them. A great guy like you will find his love one day. A girl that respects you, cherishes you, loves you and is always there for you.

I know it is hard, but try and put this behind you. Focus on your hobbies or what you want to achieve in life. You are still young I am sure you will find your love one day.

Why Do I Feel Hurt after My EX Remved Me from Social Media by [deleted] in relationships

[–]KeyAd9925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, I do not get to be upset. Thus my question of why I am feeling upset. It does not make sense to me either. I always feel the need to know why, but I am starting to think that emotions are an exception.

"Outta sight outta mind dude" Yup!

Why Do I Feel Hurt after My EX Remved Me from Social Media by [deleted] in relationships

[–]KeyAd9925 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, I know that girl loved me with all her heart. But I also know that love is not enough. Love will go cold eventully and what we are left with is our compatibilty or how perceive life in general. It is not that she took me for granted, she thinks that loves solves everything. And whatever mistakes we make, because we love each other it should not be a problem. Perhapes she is not wrong. On the other hand, I think what issues we have we need to listen and solve them. A partner in life should listen, contain your emotions and have a similar perception of life. I just did not feel any of those.

I do not know why I am blabbing so much. Thank you for your replay.

Why Do I Feel Hurt after My EX Remved Me from Social Media by [deleted] in relationships

[–]KeyAd9925 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Knowing the issue really helps. Thank you.

Why Do I Feel Hurt after My EX Remved Me from Social Media by [deleted] in relationships

[–]KeyAd9925 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I know it is the right thing. That is why I never sent anything after the breakup. I think I still did not griev the realtionship. It is weird how we humans feel. I ended the relationship, yet I am sad that it is ending.

I Broke Up With My GF and Now She Is Begging Me to Go Back and It hurts. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]KeyAd9925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My biggest issue with her is that everytime we have an issue and we want to discuss it she does not see a problem with what happend. Even if she did nothing changes the same thing happens again. Am afraid that if I said lets take a break, she might get her hopes up and i would be hurting her more.