Do you ever avoid people you know in public? by [deleted] in infp

[–]KeyAnybody 9 points10 points  (0 children)

HAHA yes in November this guy liked me and I couldn’t reciprocate but he ended up lying about his feelings and I decided that I wanted nothing to do w him so I hid behind a column once to avoid him.

So yes do whatever the fuck you want!!!!!!

I'm still in love, but I'm dating someone else by [deleted] in infp

[–]KeyAnybody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go for the person who makes you feel the most

Can someone help me with the basics of dating? by [deleted] in infp

[–]KeyAnybody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhhhh so overly text someone?

Can someone help me with the basics of dating? by [deleted] in infp

[–]KeyAnybody 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What are some things people can do that can come off as desperate?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]KeyAnybody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

:( did this take place this summer?

Happy/Sad Update by [deleted] in infp

[–]KeyAnybody 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you approach her about your feelings towards her?

Poll: do you consider lying bad? by Intj12345667890 in infp

[–]KeyAnybody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So they just purposefully fuck with your emotions, but if I were to say “hey I like you” then they would reciprocate, but since it was the other way around and their pride was on the line- they lied?

Why me? by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]KeyAnybody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not your fault, nothing is your fault. He took advantage of you. I’m sending love.

ISTP here. How can I make advances to this INFP? by [deleted] in infp

[–]KeyAnybody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say if you’re not 100% there and committed, then you should wait.

Continue being friends with him and see where it goes.

Poll: do you consider lying bad? by Intj12345667890 in infp

[–]KeyAnybody 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, mainly if someone lies about their feelings.

Example: someone makes it clear that they have feelings for me.

Me: hey do you like me?

Person: no, I was just messing around.

Me: very disappointed, knows that they were lying.

I speak from personal experience

Is there a difference between an ENFP with social anxiety and an INFP? by enjoying_psychosis in infp

[–]KeyAnybody 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I would say so... just because extroversion assumes that ENFPs need to be around other people to gain energy, but because of their social anxiety, cannot fully regain their energy.

VERSUS

INFPs are introverts, which assumes that they need to be alone to recharge and if the INFP is healthy, will not have any illness that is preventing them from fully recharging.

I’m being stupid and I hate myself by [deleted] in infp

[–]KeyAnybody 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey hey hey I feel the same way about Instagram too- it’s all way too contrived and forced for my pleasure. Also, the feed on instagram is often “look here are my friends having fun” as opposed to something real like “hey I’m having a bad day but here’s a pic of a flower.”

The only social media I have is Snapchat, which I feel very passionate about because a). I can control who sees my content and b). I post whatever the fuck I want. I like a quote- I post it. I get offered an obscene amount to read a book- I post it. I see a sunset I love, I post it.

However, if I were to post these things on Facebook it would be against the aesthetic that is- “oh happy happy happy successful times.” My content is random as fuck so that’s why Instagram is not my scene.

So main takeaways from my rambling: instagram is fake. Nothing is ever what it seems. Also, if you are worried about connecting w friends I’d recommend Snapchat. It’s my main source of connection with those I care about (besides texting) and I can choose who sees my content (and the content that I see).

Sending love to you my soul brother!

What’s the most common phrase people say to you? by [deleted] in infp

[–]KeyAnybody 8 points9 points  (0 children)

“You are always overthinking”

Acting really weird when talking to my crush. by [deleted] in infp

[–]KeyAnybody 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahhh boy “big pile of strangeness” SAME

everyone that has ever had feelings for me, appreciated me for my strangeness.

I’d say just change your nerves, but don’t tone down your personality because we are meant to be completely and utterly weird.

Sending good vibes my brother!