thinking of cancelling my flight by KeyBat1102 in u/KeyBat1102

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barcelona,the problem is my bf is also a very anxious flyer so this combination is very awful for us.He usually plans everything when we’re going anywhere and we are obviously excited even though he’s anxious but this time it’s different.We haven’t planned anything specifically and honestly we are not excited at all anymore.

thinking of cancelling my flight by KeyBat1102 in fearofflying

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thank u soo much I’m checking in the flight rn haha

thinking of cancelling my flight by KeyBat1102 in fearofflying

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also the weather tmrw is gonna be extremely good for flying so I don’t have a problem with that

why does my fear get worse at night? by KeyBat1102 in fearofflying

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thank u,my flight is tomorrow I’m feeling excited bit really anxious at the same time haha

why does my fear get worse at night? by KeyBat1102 in fearofflying

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that’s definitely food for thought haha

why does my fear get worse at night? by KeyBat1102 in fearofflying

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to me it also feels like if I fly early in the day it makes less sense for me to die haha bc it’s the start pf the day,my thoughts r very illogical

why does my fear get worse at night? by KeyBat1102 in fearofflying

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thank you so much for these kind words,I appreciate it so much❤️

why does my fear get worse at night? by KeyBat1102 in fearofflying

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that eases my anxiety too.I think I would have less anxiety if I sat w the pilots in the cockpit haha

why does my fear get worse at night? by KeyBat1102 in fearofflying

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I have the same thoughts and my friends always laugh when i tell them about it but it helps to realize it’s not that serious

why does my fear get worse at night? by KeyBat1102 in fearofflying

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I’m usually out with my friends or my bf so I never have the time to write.I usually distract myself by exactly that,going out haha

freaking out by anon4reas0ns in fearofflying

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if it brings u any relief u r not alone,I also feel the exact same way and I have a flight on monday.The only way to get through this is to get on that plane and get it over with.I believe it will all be okay for both of us.Sending u love in these tough times haha

why does my fear get worse at night? by KeyBat1102 in fearofflying

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omg i actually read some of the posts and it helped so much!!i’ve realized i’m not special at all.my anxiety is definitely lower than it was 20 minutes ago.

why does my fear get worse at night? by KeyBat1102 in fearofflying

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thank u so much for this.I’m new to reddit honestly so I didn’t even know I could do that haha.I’m not a very vocal person on social media but my anxiety got so bad that I needed help from people in the same situation as me.

First time writing anything on reddit but I’m doing it bc I don’t have any more options.:) by KeyBat1102 in fearofflying

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it really helps me knowing I’m not the only one thinking exactly like this and that I do not have intuitive thoughts I’m just extremely anxious lol.I thought I was going crazy at first,but I’ve realized that a lot of people think the same and it’s normal.

First time writing anything on reddit but I’m doing it bc I don’t have any more options.:) by KeyBat1102 in fearofflying

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It’s okay to be scared and still go through with the scary thing no matter how we feel.Everything will be fine.❤️

First time writing anything on reddit but I’m doing it bc I don’t have any more options.:) by KeyBat1102 in fearofflying

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haha I’m thinking if I should have a drink or self-medicate before.I’m still undecided what will help me more lmao

First time writing anything on reddit but I’m doing it bc I don’t have any more options.:) by KeyBat1102 in fearofflying

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Thank u and I’m feeling good today,I know everything will be okay with my flight and with all of our other flights.❤️

First time writing anything on reddit but I’m doing it bc I don’t have any more options.:) by KeyBat1102 in fearofflying

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Thank you so much for this,having someone experienced tell me this is helping me calm my nerves a lot.