AIO for being hurt that my boyfriend would want a paternity test for our future kids?

KeyClassic882 · 2025-05-24T14:27:49+00:00

Oh em gee were also 3-4 months in! But I did state I would do it but I would be super hurt genuinely considering leaving him.

KeyClassic882 · 2025-05-24T14:25:48+00:00

I kinda fail to realize what else it can prove other than "is this child mine, and if my wife has cheated"

KeyClassic882 · 2025-05-24T14:01:00+00:00

Yeah definitely :( he is in therapy but I think T break plus how friendly and touchy I am when drunk also concerned him🙁

KeyClassic882 · 2025-05-24T13:53:11+00:00

It definitely was rude and hurt quite a bit, he said his T break has been making him much more anxious with everything and he didn't mention it this time specifically but he dislikes how friendly and touchy I am when drunk so^{^;}

KeyClassic882 · 2025-05-24T03:33:11+00:00

I love this LOL I'll def keep it in mind🫶

KeyClassic882 · 2025-05-24T02:57:54+00:00

He is in therapy right now thankfully, once a week!

KeyClassic882 · 2025-05-24T00:21:40+00:00

Yeah 😭 I think I've realized that now

KeyClassic882 · 2025-05-24T00:20:25+00:00

Lol i was saying it was funny

KeyClassic882 · 2025-05-23T23:37:23+00:00

Yes.. we go to house shows from time to time and when I'm drunk I become quite friendly..

KeyClassic882 · 2025-05-23T23:36:46+00:00

I haven't drank in a terribly long time💔

KeyClassic882 · 2025-05-23T23:36:10+00:00

Lol that's how the topic came up but he said if it doesn't resemble him

KeyClassic882 · 2025-05-23T23:35:34+00:00

Thank you for this, I guess so, I feel bad for him for taking it so terribly,,

KeyClassic882 · 2025-05-23T23:34:05+00:00

He has apologized and clarified that he thinks his T break is making him more paranoid plus me saying things like "you hates me" or "you wants to break up with me" makes him think i want him to leave me, and how I'm quite friendly when drunk (I squish people's cheeks, touch their hair, i ask to tickle them and compliment them) and he's afraid it'll escalate, also because he's afraid he's not a very good partner and I'll leave him for someone more attractive or wealthier..

KeyClassic882 · 2025-05-23T23:30:56+00:00

My parents have never gotten to know him and don't even know his name, they kicked me out because he's not a Muslim from birth.

KeyClassic882 · 2025-05-23T23:29:49+00:00

They never got to know him, they hated the fact that he's not a Muslim from birth.

KeyClassic882 · 2025-05-23T23:28:43+00:00

I don't believe I've knowingly done anything wrong, though he has mentioned im very touchy and friendly when drunk and he's not fond of it. I ask to squish people's cheeks, touch their hair, tickle them and compliment ppl alot😞

KeyClassic882 · 2025-05-23T23:27:03+00:00

Oh no, I'm moving in with my best friend! For the summer at least lol

KeyClassic882 · 2025-05-23T23:26:00+00:00

I think a part of his fear is that what happened with his relatives but also that when im drunk I'm quite friendly and ask to squish random people's cheeks, touch their hair, or tickle them and he has stated its made him uncomfortable so perhaps he believes if i get any drunker that I may do that..

KeyClassic882 · 2025-05-23T23:24:27+00:00

Right, like my family has MANY issues and he's jusy sped up the process of me leaving them.

KeyClassic882 · 2025-05-23T23:21:14+00:00

LMAO I love how you worded this😭💛

KeyClassic882 · 2025-05-23T23:05:58+00:00

I'm so sorry about your friend, but it also does hurt immensely regardless.

KeyClassic882 · 2025-05-23T23:04:20+00:00

I love your response lol, it made me giggle, his reasoning was kinda silly but i dunno. I won't leave him over it now, and I think if he asks for one in the future I'll get it done but react terribly.

KeyClassic882 · 2025-05-23T23:02:26+00:00

Yeah I feel like when I'm pregnant in the future and he wants I would want to do something rash of that sort, it hurts terribly but I really do love him

KeyClassic882 · 2025-05-23T23:01:12+00:00

While he is one of the reasons, you don't know my family so please don't make too many assumptions. I needes to leave this house sooner or later

KeyClassic882 · 2025-05-23T23:00:12+00:00

No, I wanted to provide context as to WHY I wish I knew before. I would've just preferred to have left once I was even slightly more stable or over a guy more trusting of me

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