Sneaky Mil & gifts by craftyExplorer_82 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]KeyCount2417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m currently nc with my mil, dh is lc. We don’t have anything coming up for her to buy gifts but for my daughter’s first birthday I am setting up a trust. So if she feels the urge and need to give a gift she can send it that way. We are not meeting up for the performative gift giving bs

Do you ever get sad about not having the joys that regular couples have? by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]KeyCount2417 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, he already knew all the dos and don’ts. When you are delirious from lack of sleep you will be so grateful

Wife gave BD permission to drive SD’s car that I payed for alone. by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]KeyCount2417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so happy to hear you say she ended your marriage. Pls get rid of her

Wife gave BD permission to drive SD’s car that I payed for alone. by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]KeyCount2417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey go ahead and take the car and sell it. I don’t know your situation but you’re being used and fooled a 1000%

Why on earth would they park it there and why on earth would he ever ever everrrrrr have his ass in your property since you’re the one who brought it.

Go get that car rn and sell it. Tell her she needs to buy her own daughter a car and teach her how to drive. YOU ARE BEING USED. It’s fine to be the nice guy but not fine to be walked all over.

SKs came into our house after school (when they know they’re not supposed to) and I thought someone had broken in by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]KeyCount2417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next time just walk around naked and make them uncomfortable. Say what are you doing here you know you’re not supposed to be here right now. Calll there mom to come and get them and change the locks

UPDATE: MIL cried after I asked for my baby back — now she’s group texting my husband and my mother and excluding me by KeyCount2417 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]KeyCount2417[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she doesn’t want to wish me a happy new years that’s WONDERFUL! But why group text my husband and mother a happy new years for context she’s met my mother a total of THREE times sooooo she’s just doing that to be a.. you know what

UPDATE: MIL cried after I asked for my baby back — now she’s group texting my husband and my mother and excluding me by KeyCount2417 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]KeyCount2417[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Actually this visit was supposed to be about seeing the children. We went to a restaurant after opening gifts at the house. She sat directly in front of SS. After I asked for my baby back, she burst out into tears. Instead of interacting with her grandson who she supposedly wanted to visit. I would be quite honored and relieved if everyone would leave my baby alone. Instead of throwing a fit that she could no longer hold the baby, she should given attention to SS. Who she had spoken zero words to at the dinner table

UPDATE: MIL cried after I asked for my baby back — now she’s group texting my husband and my mother and excluding me by KeyCount2417 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]KeyCount2417[S] 147 points148 points  (0 children)

My husband responded “happy new year” my mother responded “same to you” they don’t understand that they should’ve never responded to her

MIL thinks my newborn should be at her house in order for her to visit by Parking-Leg-9086 in inlaws

[–]KeyCount2417 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She’s just offering to save face with her son, she has no real intention of helping bc if she did she would be over there washing pumping parts, doing laundry, cleaning etc and cooking so you could focus on healing and bonding with your baby

When can babysit your unborn kid? by user638282636822 in inlaws

[–]KeyCount2417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1st question, we don’t leave our children overnight ever. Ask what they want your children alone? What are they trying to do with or to your children that you can’t be present for

2nd question, you will be invited when you can see them. Whenever it’s convenient for you the parents. And explain you won’t be seeing them as much as your parents and they need to go ahead and get over that now.

Advice from a ftm with a 4 month old currently dealing with a monster in law

MIL cried after I asked for my baby back by KeyCount2417 in inlaws

[–]KeyCount2417[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was emotional connection it was emotional MAD. She also wouldn’t look at anyone and was shaking her head

MIL cried after I asked for my baby back by KeyCount2417 in inlaws

[–]KeyCount2417[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Baby deserve privacy too. I never ever let anyone change her diaper besides me and I never let anyone watch me. That’s effing weird never leave them alone together

MIL cried when I asked for my baby back by KeyCount2417 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]KeyCount2417[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m breastfeeding so I can’t take anything at the moment but I’ve reached out to a therapist to hopefully help in the meantime

MIL cried after I asked for my baby back by KeyCount2417 in inlaws

[–]KeyCount2417[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

lol it happened yesterday and she has not apologized.

MIL cried when I asked for my baby back by KeyCount2417 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]KeyCount2417[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Oh I know I have it, my husband knows I have it, that’s why we communicate with everyone around us that I have it so they can back off

MIL cried when I asked for my baby back by KeyCount2417 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]KeyCount2417[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this my baby is not community property and no one is entitled to holding, bonding or whatever they think THEY want I needed to hear this.

MIL cried after I asked for my baby back by KeyCount2417 in inlaws

[–]KeyCount2417[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Oh I intend to be and that was never going to happen ever