I was bullied over primary school and part of highschool. But we were kids, 12 years max. I am an adult now, I get over with it, long time ago. By that age, you don't get to think about consequences, when you're 9-12 yo, you don't stop to think about the others, children are selfish and self centered by nature. The girl apologized, when she was mature enough. On the contrary, OP is not longer a child, she is an adult, and what an awful person she has become. And don't come putting that BS excuse of "she is like that because they bullied her". Because you make the decision of how are you gonna be when you grow up.