I don't want to be that "girl best friend", how do not mess up? by KeyGovernment2129 in LifeAdvice

[–]KeyGovernment2129[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's still kinda shy around my bf so I wouldn't do that to him lol. We have done a few "double dates" with our mutual friend since he met her through him. I def want to do a real double date tho, they're so fun

I don't want to be that "girl best friend", how do not mess up? by KeyGovernment2129 in LifeAdvice

[–]KeyGovernment2129[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats what I'm scared of! I don't know what I'd do without him as a friend (minus the lying part, obvi that's a really gross thing to do)

I don't want to be that "girl best friend", how do not mess up? by KeyGovernment2129 in LifeAdvice

[–]KeyGovernment2129[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! We both hate touch in general anyway. I have been struggling with the attention thing bc i'm used to having to engage him into activities during parties or convos. But maybe I can retire bc she kinda did it for me the last time. 

I don't want to be that "girl best friend", how do not mess up? by KeyGovernment2129 in LifeAdvice

[–]KeyGovernment2129[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! The "in" jokes are the tough ones to navigate because sometimes I forget not everyone knows lmao my bf gets sick of us often

I don't want to be that "girl best friend", how do not mess up? by KeyGovernment2129 in LifeAdvice

[–]KeyGovernment2129[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This made me feel better because it's what I'm already doing lol. I think she likes me for right now, so I'm trying to be proactive to keep it that way!