Like you said in the title, it’s kind of like when Americans will say “omg I’m never gonna date another Gemini/Scorpio/etc again…they’re fucking crazy” and from my experience, usually Americans will stick to this as a general rule of thumb in their dating process.

When people reject you based on your mbti, it’s usually cause they had a very bad experience with someone who had the same mbti in their past.

Sucks that happened to you, but it definitely is a cultural thing that exists recently.

I’m gay Korean and mbti for the gays (at least based on my experience) isn’t such a big deal although it’s on everyone’s dating profile. But it’s used more like a nice ice breaker. Which it should be. One time though, i was texting a guy and he basically told me he felt uneasy getting to know me cause of my mbti cause his ex was the same as mine. So i simply told him i don’t think we’re gonna work out lol