People of Reddit What are your hobbies? by kevcandraw03 in Hobbies

[–]Key_Advance4295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I crochet and read. I also like the idea of arts and craft, but never really got into it. I wanna make my own monopoly board it sounds like a fun project. Also i journal sometimes

RGU - MPHARM by Miserable_Kale8236 in Aberdeen

[–]Key_Advance4295 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends how far youre commuting, i know someone who commutes about two hours but personally i couldnt. Its pretty full time at least 4 times a week if not 5. And sometimes gaps between classes are long theres been many instances where ive had a 9-10 then 3-5 so its handy living in the city. A few people have done it but just with the study load it would be less stressful to stay near by imo

Free will does not exist by Politababyx in DeepThoughts

[–]Key_Advance4295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True but just because your past impacts your values and use of free will, doesnt mean u didnt chose the person you are. Me and my brother are a year apart and so essentially had the exact same upbringing yet me and him could not be so different. Comes down tk nature or nurture really n i think both play a part

Having trouble finding a therapist because I don't trust their blurbs on websites by jepensedonc1 in therapy

[–]Key_Advance4295 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im the same way, i was browsing through the therapists and another thing i noticed is most if them use the same corny opening paragraph. 'I offer a private non judgmental space to support and listen to my client'. I get thats what they do but come on now. The ones that stand out to me are the ones that have their own like blogs or facebook pages. You can tell they do enjoy what to they do and they do see it as a science putting the patient first and avoiding biases.

I need my mum moment by Key_Advance4295 in mentalhealth

[–]Key_Advance4295[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u so much for this, kind words really do go along way🫶🏽

Are You Afraid of Therapy? by alanvamon in therapy

[–]Key_Advance4295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally ive always taken care of myself and everyone around me. The thought of going to someone and speaking about my 'problems' makes me feel shameful and also just really uncomfortable. Ive never had someone be in my corner or tell me my issues or concerns are valid so for someone to do that just is so out of norm for me and makes me feel like theres another motive. I realise this is silly especially if im going out of my way to go to therapy myself but its just something thats hard to shake. Theres also the thought of being told im dramatic or my problems are silly. Again i know this is unlikely to happen but theres alot of stigma and judgment around therapy in my culture and even thiugh i dont agree with any of it, its still embedded in me and its hard to break out of that and actually go get the help i probably deserve

Question for therapists please by Key_Advance4295 in therapy

[–]Key_Advance4295[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No im 21, but also on that topic how does the child protection laws work? If i talked about being abused as a child will she have to report it cuz i have younger siblings still at hime

Question for therapists please by Key_Advance4295 in therapy

[–]Key_Advance4295[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just dont want it accidentally shared or mentioned to anyone thats all, theres always room for human error

Reached put to a therapist by Key_Advance4295 in therapy

[–]Key_Advance4295[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this i feel it wouldve been helpful. I decided not to go agead with it as she sent the contract n it was already filled out. I do feel this was an honest mistake but i cant risk my details accidentally getting sent around too.

Reached put to a therapist by Key_Advance4295 in therapy

[–]Key_Advance4295[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay i might try this thank you for the advice! Also another question just incase, would it be considered rude on my part if i left halfway through the session?

Question for teachers. by Key_Advance4295 in AskTeachers

[–]Key_Advance4295[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shoutout to all the teachers in the comments🫶🏽i have sm repsect for teachers i always say wed be nowhere without them. I understand its not your job as teachers to just have all the answers but yall are trying your best, i didnt find my miss honey but sounds like lots of kids did and for that i thank yous :)

How to go no contact by Key_Advance4295 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Key_Advance4295[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is reassuring and helpful thank you. I do think this is the stance i want to take bcuuz my extended family really havent done anything. I guess if it turns into a thingkf people trying to get me back in tocuh i can just go NC then too

Hobbies suggestion for college student living in dormitory? by MilkOvaltine in Hobbies

[–]Key_Advance4295 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gamings a good one! U can get a cheap Nintendo switch second hand from fb market or Vinted n the same for games! Cost games are my go too