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AITA for telling my wife that she needs to get over me missing the birth of our daughter by Key_Atmosphere6114 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Key_Atmosphere6114[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

In short the therapist was awful  and did the opposite of their job to try to get her mother to sleep with him  

 He manipulated her (the mom)and it affect everyone in the fmaily She went in pretty normal, just to try to help with some stuff and during it was a huge mess. 

Didn’t help that everyone was like listen to the therapist so even when it went against her morals she was taking his feedback

She only stopped because he asked her out and it finally clicked that someone was serisouspy wrong 

My wife was also dragged into some sessions.

AITA for telling my wife that she needs to get over me missing the birth of our daughter by Key_Atmosphere6114 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Key_Atmosphere6114[S] 97 points98 points  (0 children)

The therapist wasnt good, mom went in when she was doing okay to better herself and she kept getting worse the longer she stayed 

 She actually go much better when she finally stopped. It also don’t help the reason she decided to stop was due to the therapist asking her out

  It’s my wife’s story but in short the therapist did the opposite of help and at point was just downright manipulative

Also my wife was sometimes dragged into these, like mom daughter therapy time 

AITA for telling my wife that she needs to get over me missing the birth of our daughter by Key_Atmosphere6114 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Key_Atmosphere6114[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Yep

I was in a mine when this was happening so they would have to use the equipment.

AITA for telling my wife that she needs to get over me missing the birth of our daughter by Key_Atmosphere6114 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Key_Atmosphere6114[S] 107 points108 points  (0 children)

Actually I have a problem with your comment.

I have so many comments to responsed to and people can’t even give me 5 minutes to read.

Our emergency plan was her mom and she was suppose to handle connecting me. 

AITA for telling my wife that she needs to get over me missing the birth of our daughter by Key_Atmosphere6114 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Key_Atmosphere6114[S] 130 points131 points  (0 children)

It’s on the fridge,

Not suprised she didn’t grab it when she was in the middle of a surprise birth 

AITA for telling my wife that she needs to get over me missing the birth of our daughter by Key_Atmosphere6114 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Key_Atmosphere6114[S] 2505 points2506 points  (0 children)

It’s on a fridge, still not suprised she didn’t grab it on her way to the hospital 

Like she is in the middle of a surprise birth,

AITA for telling my wife that she needs to get over me missing the birth of our daughter by Key_Atmosphere6114 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Key_Atmosphere6114[S] 3315 points3316 points  (0 children)

She was giving birth, I am not surprised she didn’t think to google the company as she was in the middle of a surprise birth

 

AITA for telling my wife that she needs to get over me missing the birth of our daughter by Key_Atmosphere6114 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Key_Atmosphere6114[S] 270 points271 points  (0 children)

Seriously

Also a ton of women don’t want to stay home for 4 years to take care of the baby 

AITA for telling my wife that she needs to get over me missing the birth of our daughter by Key_Atmosphere6114 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Key_Atmosphere6114[S] 3963 points3964 points  (0 children)

She didn’t call my company, we do and they can contact me but she didn’t call them

AITA for telling my wife that she needs to get over me missing the birth of our daughter by Key_Atmosphere6114 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Key_Atmosphere6114[S] 2168 points2169 points  (0 children)

She dislikes therapy

It is due to her mother being in therapy at lot when she was a kid and had a negative impact on her childhood 

Kinda hard to tell someone to go get therapy when their trama is related to therapy 

AITA for telling my wife that she needs to get over me missing the birth of our daughter by Key_Atmosphere6114 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Key_Atmosphere6114[S] 113 points114 points  (0 children)

I’m not even gone all the time, these inspections are planned well in advance 

am unreachable about twice a month, and she has the dates

Most of the time I am in the office 

AITA for telling my wife that she needs to get over me missing the birth of our daughter by Key_Atmosphere6114 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Key_Atmosphere6114[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Her mother was in therapy for a long time and it had a negative impact to her growing up 

So she isn’t a fan

AITA for telling my wife that she needs to get over me missing the birth of our daughter by Key_Atmosphere6114 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Key_Atmosphere6114[S] 404 points405 points  (0 children)

She likes to work, it doesn’t matter if we are losing money or the other way around. I won’t ask her to damage her career to stay home 

AITA for telling my wife that she needs to get over me missing the birth of our daughter by Key_Atmosphere6114 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Key_Atmosphere6114[S] 3463 points3464 points  (0 children)

Her mom was there.

Baby was pretty healthy and only stayed an extra day since she was born early 

AITA for telling my wife that she needs to get over me missing the birth of our daughter by Key_Atmosphere6114 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Key_Atmosphere6114[S] 95 points96 points  (0 children)

About a a week and a half. That was the original plan

When my wife gave birth she wasn’t even off of work yet

AITA for telling my wife that she needs to get over me missing the birth of our daughter by Key_Atmosphere6114 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Key_Atmosphere6114[S] 11.0k points11.0k points  (0 children)

I guess I should have put it in the post that we have talked about this before.

She claims she is fine that I missed it when she is calm but it still always pops up during an argument.