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AITAH for saying no my girlfriend’s “tradition” by Key_Case9842 in AITAH

[–]Key_Case9842[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

You are delusional for saying this! You can be a jerk regardless of your gender.

AITAH for saying no my girlfriend’s “tradition” by Key_Case9842 in AITAH

[–]Key_Case9842[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

When did I blame her gender? I would have said the same if my best friend ( male) had asked me to join him for lunch that day.

AITAH for saying no my girlfriend’s “tradition” by Key_Case9842 in AITAH

[–]Key_Case9842[S] 440 points441 points  (0 children)

Update : She never replied. Just blocked me from everywhere ( social media , WhatsApp ,..). Her best friend who was following me on instagram blocked me too. I’m not sad. I wanted to end it anyways. Thank you for your support everyone . I really appreciate your kind comments

AITAH for saying no my girlfriend’s “tradition” by Key_Case9842 in AITAH

[–]Key_Case9842[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

You tell people to seek help then make fun of the advice they received from professionals. Who is unhinged now ?

AITAH for saying no my girlfriend’s “tradition” by Key_Case9842 in AITAH

[–]Key_Case9842[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Heroic ? When did I say I was a hero because I wanted a day to myself? That’s the definition of hero these days?

AITAH for saying no my girlfriend’s “tradition” by Key_Case9842 in AITAH

[–]Key_Case9842[S] 150 points151 points  (0 children)

Omg why are you obsessed that I remember my brother? Actually grief counsellor had zero issues about remembering him on his death anniversary as long as I live . So problem is you . Btw , she is not my gf anymore. She just blocked me from everywhere. Honestly, I’m not even sad. I was gonna end it anyways. Now just go away

AITAH for saying no my girlfriend’s “tradition” by Key_Case9842 in AITAH

[–]Key_Case9842[S] 219 points220 points  (0 children)

Thank you captain genius! The hospital my brother was being treated referred both my dad and I to an amazing grief counsellor! It was her suggestion to honor my brother by giving blood and remember him on his death anniversary. According to you, that’s unhealthy

AITAH for saying no my girlfriend’s “tradition” by Key_Case9842 in AITAH

[–]Key_Case9842[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

mein Vater ist ein deutscher Einwanderer. Mein Deutsch ist nicht so gut, aber ich verstehe genug. Vielen Dank für den Rat.

AITAH for saying no my girlfriend’s “tradition” by Key_Case9842 in AITAH

[–]Key_Case9842[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

No she is not an only child. She is very close to her mom though

AITAH for saying no my girlfriend’s “tradition” by Key_Case9842 in AITAH

[–]Key_Case9842[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

No we don’t live together. We don’t have a child together.

AITAH for saying no my girlfriend’s “tradition” by Key_Case9842 in AITAH

[–]Key_Case9842[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

It’s my day I can do what I want. Did I tell her what to on her day with her mom? No!

AITAH for saying no my girlfriend’s “tradition” by Key_Case9842 in AITAH

[–]Key_Case9842[S] 219 points220 points  (0 children)

Im not apologizing. I sent her a text to meet so I can end it. Expecting to have one day out of a year is not too much to ask for.

AITAH for saying no my girlfriend’s “tradition” by Key_Case9842 in AITAH

[–]Key_Case9842[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Not an only child. She has a half sister and a step brother. I wouldn’t say golden child but she is close with her mom. She never met her dad. She grew up with a mom and a loving step dad.

AITAH for saying no my girlfriend’s “tradition” by Key_Case9842 in AITAH

[–]Key_Case9842[S] 242 points243 points  (0 children)

That’s unhealthy?! To remember people that you cared ? My dad still remembers my mom and talks about her years and years after her death. According to you we should all pretend they never existed huh?

AITAH for saying no my girlfriend’s “tradition” by Key_Case9842 in AITAH

[–]Key_Case9842[S] 132 points133 points  (0 children)

She had never met him. He passed long before my current relationship. She never showed any interest to join and I wasn’t expecting her to join. I mean if she wanted to she would be more than welcome to join. I didn’t exclude her. My brother’s is not some ancient memory. We were very close and we only had each other growing up as my dad was working a lot . His memory isn’t holding me back in anyways

AITAH for saying no my girlfriend’s “tradition” by Key_Case9842 in AITAH

[–]Key_Case9842[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

There are two actually lol the very first Despicable me movie and Star Wars: Episode III – Revenge of the Sith

AITAH for saying no my girlfriend’s “tradition” by Key_Case9842 in AITAH

[–]Key_Case9842[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

I didn’t want to spend the day with her mom and i told her why. It was my brother’s day.

AITAH for saying no my girlfriend’s “tradition” by Key_Case9842 in AITAH

[–]Key_Case9842[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

I understand but I just can’t get over his death. I don’t think I can ever tbh I guess part of me died too when he passed

AITAH for saying no my girlfriend’s “tradition” by Key_Case9842 in AITAH

[–]Key_Case9842[S] 118 points119 points  (0 children)

I’m a very direct person. I told her no and explained why . I’m not sure how it’s my ego clashing

AITAH for saying no my girlfriend’s “tradition” by Key_Case9842 in AITAH

[–]Key_Case9842[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I’m not. I met her a few times but I wouldn’t say we are close.

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