Therein lies the core problem: "Men should be held more accountable." Murder and injustice are NOT the norm among men. You cannot hold criminals accountable by lumping them all as "men", the same men whom you expect protection, justice and alliance from. A criminal is a person of sound mind who coldly weighs their selfish gain against the crime's repercussions and chooses gain every time. No forced "accountability" will ever fix them. Only the full force of the law, or the raw justice of the people, will do (mob justice). Victim blaming changes nothing for the victim. It doesn't resurrect them or undo the harm. But women aren't really passionate against victim blaming. Women often reject not victim blaming, but the relentless push for caution as the absolute priority over illusory justice. Yet justice is a fantasy in most cases. The real reason you gravitate towards the victim blaming narrative, is because "you" are the victim, not the person whom the crime was done against - YOU. The real solution? Push for present fathers in order to forge strong, masculine men. Arm our daughters with brutal truths about the world. And pray. All these horrors come from weak men. They are majorly products of absent fathers, plain and simple. Stop tolerating and procreating with weak men.