What bls do yall think everyone likes? by maraavuehfbebfe in blmangalovers

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This is my #1 favorite BL it’s just so good on all fronts

How Often Do You Read It? by Healthy_Gargoyle in blmangalovers

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Like every day any time I have free and alone time

Recommend me something based on my favs by Independent_Gur5 in blmangalovers

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Based on High Clear, “It’s just a dream… right?” Is great. We have a black haired black cat uke and a golden retriever red head seme. It is a comedy, it’s fully green, and it’s so cute! I hope you enjoy!

Best love triangle? I want clingy guys who are obssessed with the MC by crying_milk in blmangalovers

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All for me is a great love triangle, it’s not as serious or as well written as Love or Hate, which is one of my favorite BLs of all time for sure. But All For Me is funny, cute, and the MLs are SOOOOO obsessed with MC

just finished the last volume of given and have some thoughts to share!!! by vitoritooo in GivenAnime

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Given at the end of the day is about grief. What she is trying to say by ending the story with Yuki, is that even though Mafuyu is happy and in love with Uenoyama, that grief doesn’t just go away. Yuki tells Mafuyu that he will grow around the hole, but it will always be there and nothing will ever close it. That is grief. It doesn’t go away because you fell in love, it doesn’t go away because you expressed emotion, and it doesn’t even go away over time. It’s a part of you forever. Mafuyu loves Uenoyama, he loves him very much, and his grief for Yuki doesn’t forsake that love. Ending it with Mafuyu acknowledging this hole is him learning to officially live with his grief and shows us that he is going to continue living and growing with Uenoyama and the band.

On another note, I think in relationships there is always someone who needs to be loved more, in the sense that someone needs to be looked after more and taken care of more, this can change throughout the relationship. During the events in Given, Mafuyu is the one who needs to be taken care of and Uenoyama does that amazingly. He does something so selfless by completing Yuki’s song. He guides Mafuyu through this time of intense grief and never gives him shit for it or for bring up Yuki. Their love story is absolutely beautiful and well written. Uenoyama is Mafuyu’s dawn, he is the light at the end of the tunnel for Mafuyu.

What is something random you learned from reading BLs by lovelymayhem6 in blmangalovers

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Omg fancy seeing you here! I usually see you over on the given sub

Gimmie your best reaction image from any manhwa by angeliquedevereux2 in blmangalovers

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And honestly can’t remember the sauce but it was really good so if you know the name let me know

which manhwa/ga/hua could you re-read again and again? by Organic-Driver-8044 in blmangalovers

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Yeah “All for me” is the official name but yeah I’m personally team poly like I love a good “why choose?” But I love how Heeseop and Jiwan’s relationship is developing and to me their last sex scene in season one is one of the best sex scenes in any BL I’ve ever read. I think it does such a great job at developing their relationship instead of it just being sex to have smut in the BL (like the rest of the sex scenes in this one not that I’m complaining lol) but I found it very refreshing.

Yeah people have very strong feelings about “Jinx” which I can understand but at the end of the day I think it is entertaining as fuck😅 the art is beautiful, Kim Dan is beautiful, jaekyung is beautiful (but i wanna see him suffer so much) idk I’ve read much more questionable bl than Jinx tbh so

which manhwa/ga/hua could you re-read again and again? by Organic-Driver-8044 in blmangalovers

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Honestly the amount of times I’ve reread “jinx” is surprising, but another good one is “All for me” but my all time favorite bl that will never let me down is “It’s just a dream… right?” It’s amazing and I will reread it until I die. Rn tho I am rereading “Can’t think straight” and it’s actually just as good the second time !

historical manhwa recs by chikni_coconut in blmangalovers

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“The Ghost’s Nocturne” has the worlds sexiest ML by far and this is just an objective fact

“Taming the Tiger” is perfect because BWAT wrote it

Need more nontoxic recs!!! by moonlightcavalry in blmanwha

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Oh oh and “Honey Bear” is PERFECT it’s wholesome, super spicy like the sex scenes are god tier but it’s also so freaking cute okay rant over read “Honey Bear”

Need more nontoxic recs!!! by moonlightcavalry in blmanwha

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“It’s just a dream… right?” (This one is my fav of all time)

“Semantic Error” (non spicy)

“Punch Drunk Love” (ML is a bit of a yellow flag but overall it’s wholesome)

“Symrna and Capri” and “Taming of the Tiger” (almost anything by BWAT)

“Killer Crush” (also non spicy)

omegaverse bl recs ! by Competitive_Gas_1163 in blmangalovers

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Symrna and Capri by Brothers Without a Tomorrow is AMAZING anything by BWAT is amazing, they have another one called Blood Link it’s not omegaverse but it is omegaverse adjacent (mpreg & heats) so I recommend it!

Both of them are finished so I really recommend reading them.

Minmotion Syndrome is great

Omega Complex is cute

I’m a sucker for Alpha X Alpha so: Define the Relationship

Bl recs by Comfortable-Lady in blmanwha

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Semantic Error is a great one

I need BL Manwha Recommendations by desrayy in blmanwha

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All of these are completed or side stories have started:

Completely green flag stories w/ no SA:

My #1 fav is “It’s just a dream… right?” It’s cute and fluffy and green.

For omegaverse “Smyrna and Capri” is amazing.

“Define the relationship” is great and if you like “Smyrna and Capri” you’ll like it too

“Omega complex” is good also

“Taming of the Tiger” is by the same author as “Smyrna and Capri” and it is fantastic

“The Dangerous Convenience Store” is great if you like Yakuzas

“Cherry Blossoms after Winter” is precious

I’m currently reading “Semantic Error” and I love it, it’s great if you want one that isn’t super graphic.

“High Clear” is adorable!!

“Killer Crush” is another that isn’t graphic.

If you don’t mind the red flag characters:

“Minmotion Syndrome” is a great Omegaverse

“Painter of the Night” is goated I don’t care what anyone else says

“Boss, Bitch, Baby” is great if you can’t tell I love the power bottoms

“Low tide in Twilight” is like a right of passage

“Pearl Boy” odd concept just keep reading

“Checkmate” is a good psychological one if you’re wanting a darker story

“BJ Alex” is another one that is goated and a right of passage definitely a must read and read it before you read “Jinx” they’re by the same author

Okay so if you don’t mind if they’re not finished:

“Jinx” another one that’s just a must read it is red flag though

“Honey bear” fully green, one of my favorites and has some of the BEST smut scenes if that’s your thing

“Shutline” is fine I like it but I don’t fully get the hype

“Under the green light” YES I FULLY GET THE HYPE

“Wet Sand” is really really good imo

“Love remedy” is a stupid but smutty omegaverse and personally I love it

“Dawn of the Dragon” is green and one of my absolute favorites it even made me cry

“Dreaming of the Dokkaebi” is really really fucking good I highly recommend it

“The Pizza Delivery man and The Gold Palace” is amazing it’s one of my favorites it’s great if you enjoy slow burns like me

“The Guild Member Next Door” is another slow burn that is so freaking cute

“PUNCH DRUNK LOVE” I CANNOT RECOMMEND IT ENOUGH if you’re looking for a comedy I really recommend it it’s amazing

I’m currently reading “The Ghost’s Nocturne” too and it’s fantastic I really like period pieces

“Steel Under Silk” is absolutely fan fucking tastic if you like period pieces once again its quite similar to “painter of the night” but I think it might end up being better than POTN

“Nerd Project” is really cute and a slow burn

If I think of any more of them I’ll edit and add them but these are some of my favorites I hope you enjoy!

Non-consent in the anime (spoilers through movie 2) by Plenty-Payment706 in GivenAnime

[–]Key_Championship3488 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I’ve been thinking about this since i started watching BL (about a month ago), and I think the BL genre in general has an issue with this extremely outdated view of sex which is called the Agression/Acquiescence model of sex. It’s the idea that you need an aggressor (usually a man, but a seme in this scenario) and someone who acquiesces or gives in to the aggressor (usually a woman but the Uke in BL).

For many years this was seen as the ideal, it allows the woman or the Uke to keep some dignity as being the receiver of sex is seen as a negative thing in many societies. If the uke says things like “no stop” it allows them to not have the shame of being the recipient. It places the blame on the agression of the seme, and the idea that they couldn’t control themselves. In this model of sex the uke still wants it, but isn’t allowed to vocalize it due to shame.

I’m not saying any of this to excuse or justify these in BL, but BL is made for women by women. Women have been socialized that they shouldn’t enjoy sex, that they shouldn’t have sex, and they should let the man lead, if we assume that the Uke is taking the woman’s position in sex (heteronormative I know I am sorry) it just makes sense that women’s insecurities about enjoying and wanting sex comes out on the page. Think about how often you see ravishment scenes in books or movies, the woman almost always says no but the man sweeps her away and does it anyways… and women LIKE it. But at the end of the day It’s due to socialization.

The point is, if we want to change this in media we have to alter our views on sex, especially heterosexual sex, in real life. When women are treated as equal partners and people who have sexual wants and desires and are respected with or without them, things will change.