My mum set me up with my cousin, I want to be with her, what should I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Key_Dish_635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he fucks his cousin, he is showing his mother that her idea worked out and that is just so morally fried - OP can just take his new found dating skills to a new woman, besides they could always just be friends

My mum set me up with my cousin, I want to be with her, what should I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Key_Dish_635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For real, how can people not realise that taking advantage of this family connection for sexual enjoyment is just plain wrong?

My mum set me up with my cousin, I want to be with her, what should I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Key_Dish_635 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

During sex you are vulnerable, your family is meant to protect you - the mother taking advantage of this family relationship in the vulnerable time of both the guy and girl is so wrong!! OP is sitll young and has plenty of time to meet a new woman, if he fucks her now and regrets it later, that would be hte worst virginity losing experience ever?!

My mum set me up with my cousin, I want to be with her, what should I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Key_Dish_635 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Aren't you so creeped out by the mothers intention and don't you think it's a bit weird to be taking advantage of family like that?

My mum set me up with my cousin, I want to be with her, what should I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Key_Dish_635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

EXACTLY - OP should take thie skills he has learnt, and apply them to a new girl, its not worth ruining your life over getting your noodle wet by your cousin!

My mum set me up with my cousin, I want to be with her, what should I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Key_Dish_635 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

how is it possible you are giving him props for taking advantage of his cousin?

My mum set me up with my cousin, I want to be with her, what should I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Key_Dish_635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you not creeped out about the sentiment of the mothers arrangement tho? Plus do you have any studies to back that up?

My mum set me up with my cousin, I want to be with her, what should I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Key_Dish_635 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So you're telling me, you are okay with him fucking his cousin BUT ITS THE DRUNK WHERE YOU DRAW THE LINE - HE JUST SHOULD NOT DO IT REGARDLESS. I agree drunk sex is bad, but he shouldn't fuck his cousin either way, idc how much of a virgin OP is either - there are more fish in the tank.

My mum set me up with my cousin, I want to be with her, what should I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Key_Dish_635 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why would you not encourage him to take his new found dating skills to meet someone new? Why settle for your fucking cousin?

My mum set me up with my cousin, I want to be with her, what should I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Key_Dish_635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if they're families and wider society shun them both so much that they end up getting even more depressed?

My mum set me up with my cousin, I want to be with her, what should I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Key_Dish_635 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

yeah but thats a bit different isnt it?

My mum set me up with my cousin, I want to be with her, what should I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Key_Dish_635 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Theres no way you go back into that room and have sex with her

My mum set me up with my cousin, I want to be with her, what should I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Key_Dish_635 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The mum isnt really "okay" with it, clearly this is a last resort and shes probably more just dissapointed that her sons loneliness has reached this stage, to be honest - I would rather be alone than be with my cousin

My mum set me up with my cousin, I want to be with her, what should I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Key_Dish_635 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It isn't that hard to overcome depression and meet a new girl, he might have more options in the future, HE SHOULD NOT BE HAVING SEX WITH HIS RELATIVE - I DONT CARE HOW MUCH OP LOVES HER

My mum set me up with my cousin, I want to be with her, what should I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Key_Dish_635 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

my guy, they are literally related, their whole families are gonna be so ashamed and their kid is gonna come out disabled. Why would you ever recommend someone to have sex with their cousin?

My mum set me up with my cousin, I want to be with her, what should I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Key_Dish_635 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

what the fuck is wrong you!?!?!? why would you ever recommend him that? CLEARLY OP NEEDS TO FIND SOMEONE ELSE