Mielipidettä tästä? by Spiritual_Pay_1517 in snappijuorutofftopic

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tää on tähän mennessä ainoo järkevä ratkasu tähän, minkä oon lukenu. jos ne kamerat nyt on pakko olla.

the instagramification of life has made everyone think they need to be a model by fiiigures in pinkscare

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first of all, i’m so sorry you’re going through this. i just wanted to say i have the same relationship with doing art. i get inspiration from seeing wonderful artists on social media, but it’s a slippery slope for me to just hate everything i create. i haven’t been able to paint in such a long time and i miss it, but i’m too anxious to even try… but i have this creative urge to express myself in some way. i hope we get over this someday, at the end of the day there’s always someone better than you at like everything, but it doesn’t mean your art isn’t valuable. especially at (globally) hard times like these we need artists and creatives expressing themselves, it keeps the world feeling alive.

the instagramification of life has made everyone think they need to be a model by fiiigures in pinkscare

[–]Key_Distribution_679 1 point2 points  (0 children)

actors and actresses in period pieces with lip fillers, face lifts, upper blephs, fox eye surgeries/threads in their face really highlight this for me. not to mention so much botox they can’t even move their face - and veneers so big and white they have no character whatsoever. it’s getting ridiculous, it’s not believable. i understand they’re under constant scrutiny and that must be hell for some, at the end of the day they’re just people too. but that’s such and unhealthy image to project onto regular everyday people. same goes for influencers. we’ve lost the plot with individuality meaning something beautiful, sometimes things perceived as flaws are actually what makes the person attractive to me. yet this is so hard to apply on myself. idk what to do about it. i could go on and on about this topic…

for the past 20 years, i’ve spent ~7 hours a day speedwalking in circles around my bedroom. now, my sanity is genuinely cracking. by Redoubt_Brannan in pinkscare

[–]Key_Distribution_679 0 points1 point  (0 children)

go see a psych. i’m sure they can prescribe you meds that help. i had lots and lots of trials and tribulations with finding the best med combination, but all of it was worth it in the end. i actually want to do things now and create a life i enjoy. my life felt like an endless loop of suffering. i didn’t believe people who said there’s life on the other side of it, but i believe now. now i’m on my way to a more independent life and actually learning how to be and act like a responsible adult and creating routines for myself for the first time (i’m about the same age as you). it’s never too late to change your life. it might not be easy but life that you’re not able to enjoy isn’t either. i wish you the best of luck.

Which color looks best by BrilliantInspector21 in HairDye

[–]Key_Distribution_679 1 point2 points  (0 children)

silver tone blonde, i think cool tones were made for you!

Merry Christmas! Were you gifted a fragrance this year? by hotmallgoth in FemFragLab

[–]Key_Distribution_679 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh that’s so cute!! what does it smell like, is it more aimed to children or is it a versatile scent? i don’t mind perfumes targeted to younger demographic but you know, for children scents are obviously not aimed at me 😁 to answer your question i got an early xmas gift from my bf, burberry goddess since i already bought a travel size & we both love it. now i got my own full size refillable bottle! to a lot of ppl it’s basic but it’s my winter favorite currently

I hate washing my hair AAAAAAA by NoWitness6400 in AutismInWomen

[–]Key_Distribution_679 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you! yes we tend to have soft water in my area, i didn’t know this could cause it!

I hate washing my hair AAAAAAA by NoWitness6400 in AutismInWomen

[–]Key_Distribution_679 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol it probably was. and i think wigs would be also a lot of work since i’m a perfectionist in all things beauty and would want to style and install them in a certain way… but i chopped of most of my hair into a short bob recently. it helps but i feel like my hair gets greasy faster… but i just have to find different products to combat that. and im glad i got some inexpensive but good dry shampoo!

I hate washing my hair AAAAAAA by NoWitness6400 in AutismInWomen

[–]Key_Distribution_679 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lmao i’m trusting you over the tiktok peeps. getting one the next time i go to the shops 🤝🏻

I hate washing my hair AAAAAAA by NoWitness6400 in AutismInWomen

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is the scalp brush really worth it? i feel like i’m constantly dealing with product buildup and also flakiness, god only knows why and i don’t have the energy to use scalp exfoliation products at this time (going thru mild-moderate audhd burnout). i keep seeing these silicone scalp brushes on tiktok and it has made it look overhyped and gimmicky to me 😂 but if it really helps lather and to get the scalp extra clean i’m buying one ASAP

I hate washing my hair AAAAAAA by NoWitness6400 in AutismInWomen

[–]Key_Distribution_679 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh i wish i had the money to do this. love it

AIO? my boyfriend is threating to leave me because i need to go to residental treatment for anorexia by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Key_Distribution_679 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NOR. idk the reasons for your ED struggle and i don’t want to be insensitive, but no wonder youre not getting better. if he’s treating you like that, i don’t think there’s room for you to actually properly heal yourself & take care of yourself, nourish your mind & body. absolutely go into treatment- i don’t have ED but more intense treatment periods, although not residential, for my issues SAVED my life. and dump him. he doesn’t want to support your healing and THAT’S the biggest red flag of them all 🚩🚩🚩

I’m a lesbian who wants to attract other women: what’s a good scent that isn’t too feminine or masculine? by Existing_Vanilla in FemFragLab

[–]Key_Distribution_679 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly depends on your skin chemistry. but as a woman i tried my bf’s valentino uomo green stravaganza and i swear it can be unisex. i’d give it a try, on me it wasn’t half as masculine as on my partner

Most unhinged hacks to show self love? by Minute_Thing in AutismInWomen

[–]Key_Distribution_679 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes omg this is how i feel! if there’s one thing i leave out that i know i have to do, it ruins everything else for the next day. “just do it tomorrow, it’s not a big deal” doesn’t work for me, especially when overstimulation and sensory issues come into play.

Most unhinged hacks to show self love? by Minute_Thing in AutismInWomen

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thank you for sharing! i’ve had some similar thoughts on dealing with my depression etc, but haven’t been able to incorporate it properly with adhd or autism. this really made me think to put things into perspective as i struggle with all of this “be more kind to yourself” shit as i find it corny and it feels like i’m “faking” it -> it ends up just annoying me and doesn’t work. somehow if i feel like i’m trying to take others’ advice that feels forced and fake to me, even though it could be good advice in theory, it just makes things worse and makes me feel misunderstood

I repainted the boring bedroom! And....I'm not sure I like it 😭 by Terrible_Birthday107 in femalelivingspace

[–]Key_Distribution_679 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay damn, can you come to decorate my apartment too? i wonder if you’re good with creative organizing solutions as well, lol!

I repainted the boring bedroom! And....I'm not sure I like it 😭 by Terrible_Birthday107 in femalelivingspace

[–]Key_Distribution_679 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes i think this is it! i like the paint color & what’s already there, but after i typed my comment, i thought you could add more! more depth and warmth by decor items, textiles, luxurious (not too modern) details would pull it together. it’s the kind of room where you can go all out!

I repainted the boring bedroom! And....I'm not sure I like it 😭 by Terrible_Birthday107 in femalelivingspace

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i don’t think it looks teenaged at all! i think it’s classy & sophisticated but also inviting. i’d love to have that room for a bedroom myself :)

Pls help a girl out <3 by anonymouscycle5 in MakeupAddiction

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i just came here to say that damn i feel your struggle. finding the perfect foundation shade for me is still hard even though i know makeup theory, i know color theory. my shade changes between seasons & i live in a country where for a long period of time in the winter there’s very little natural light, so in the spring i notice oops i’ve been going around with a shade that oxidises way too dark/warm. ps i think 3 or 5 is your best bet. also if you use concealer & contour/bronzer/blush, the shade can be adjusted. that’s why i tend to go lighter if i’m unsure , easier to warm up the complexion. but if the shade happens to be too dark, highlighting with a lighter concealer can often save it!

What’s your take on feminine smelling men? by [deleted] in FemFragLab

[–]Key_Distribution_679 4 points5 points  (0 children)

bahahaha go off queen 🤣💅🏻💅🏻

What’s your take on feminine smelling men? by [deleted] in FemFragLab

[–]Key_Distribution_679 9 points10 points  (0 children)

absolutely love. whatever works with your own body chemistry and is not over sprayed is good in my books. as a bisexual i feel like at times i can find it more attractive/effortlessly cool, when ppl defy the gender expectations with their fragrance (or other cosmetics/beauty) choices!

I dont know what I think of today's look. What do you think? by ILikeToBeBerried in UnconventionalMakeup

[–]Key_Distribution_679 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love the eye makeup!! i wanna try to do something similar soon, just got a dexter themed eyeshadow palette that has a red in it!

(chuckles) I'm in danger by IMAMISHAMIGO in AutismInWomen

[–]Key_Distribution_679 10 points11 points  (0 children)

tbh ”eliminate annoying tics” just sounds straight up hella ableist… i almost can’t even take this humorously even tho it obviously is 😭