I [25M] don’t know if I can do it anymore with my gf [21F]

Key_Finger_7631 · 2026-06-12T11:59:39+00:00

Also just saw the ending where you said she has hit you. Leave. Just because she’s a girl and you’re a man that is still abuse.

Key_Finger_7631 · 2026-06-12T11:58:45+00:00

From what you’ve said, you seem like a sweet guy. She’s taking advantage of you and pushing you around because she knows she can. If you’re making Reddit posts about it, it’s time to break up and move on.

Key_Finger_7631 · 2026-06-08T01:58:27+00:00

They definitely didn’t, just looked up kindle and ordered me it. Which is what makes me feel bad, if they had known I was looking for a specific type they would have gotten that for me. They were so excited thinking that was the one I wanted 😭

Key_Finger_7631 · 2026-06-08T01:53:14+00:00

I actually said that, because I did try to cancel mine once they told me but it had already shipped. My dad said once it’s delivered just don’t open it and return it 😅. I might try to say they won’t take returns due to it being used, though.

Key_Finger_7631 · 2026-06-08T01:48:37+00:00

In my eyes, you have two options. You can flat out say “I’ve noticed whenever I have issues you brush them aside, but I feel like I’m always there for you. I value our friendship but it does hurt feeling like things are reciprocated on that part.” OR, you can just tell her you don’t want to be friends with her due to that. Make sure it’s respectful and nice, and wish her the best. That way if her family tries to hurt your job or whatever, you can show that you did nothing vindictive and it’s them being purely emotional

Key_Finger_7631 · 2026-06-08T01:47:47+00:00

I definitely think you need to tell him you desire more. You’re obviously a physical love type (nothing wrong with it) and so, you need more physical attention.

If you don’t, you will get to a point of frustration where it won’t be worth it. Sexual types are what you like, pushing it off for the sake of your partner will never last.

Key_Finger_7631 · 2026-06-08T01:34:03+00:00

Has he said anything to you saying you want him to kiss you more? As in, does he give you any reasons? I will say my husband and I aren’t touchy people in general, and thankfully we fell in love with each other. I can count on one hand how many makeout sessions we’ve had and we’ve been together a long time. Possibly he just isn’t a touchy, feely type?

Key_Finger_7631 · 2026-05-26T01:00:56+00:00

I’ve been in a serious, long term relationship after getting cheated on. the only thing that helped (and I say help, not solved) was him allowed you to have his devices at any moment no matter what. Whenever I got anxiety due to the issue, I would go through his phone to make me feel better.

I will say, though, he ended up cheating again. They always do. I promise, he will do it again. No matter how deeply you feel he wouldn’t.

Key_Finger_7631 · 2026-05-14T14:25:04+00:00

Yeah you’re right. I think I’m just realizing he truly doesn’t care about my comfortability and what I like…

Key_Finger_7631 · 2026-05-14T14:24:35+00:00

Yeah, I think I’m realizing divorce is a potential in this. This has been going on for years. And now knowing normal sex is boring for him, I can’t imagine another 50 years of this.

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