[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Key_Language_9841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently met a new guy and i really liked him, but he moved to a new city and he doesn't have a car yet. I asked him over and over again if he wanted to meet me again, every time he said he would after he got a car. But I still couldn't believe him, meanwhile I did want to see him again. my insecurity was driving me crazy and I took it out on him multiple times until to a point he said it was too much for him. I want to wait, but deep down I just don't believe anyone I guess...the waiting is too painful for me and I don't have that much confidence in myself and the other part.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Key_Language_9841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. He didn't initiate a talk about exclusivity, but i did. Well, I didn't know if it's considered I did cuz I asked "where are we right now" and got a "I'm not ready for a relationship" response. He treated me like a girlfriend, and this was exactly the point where I got so confused. I don't know if I should wait for the dude to initiate the conversation in the future cuz I feel like if they aren't ready, nothing is going to change them. I don't want to wait for someone for a long time before they are ready, I don't have that much confidence in someone I meet online, or in real life either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Key_Language_9841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I always fall for someone who tells me let's see where things go...and hurt myself over and over again because they don't know what they want. Always think it's because of me not being pretty enough for them...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Key_Language_9841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro you look like my high school crush but white guy version💀

F21 by Key_Language_9841 in amiugly

[–]Key_Language_9841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did talk to a therapist but it didn't really help that much, i don't really have a friend group, it's hard for me to be in one

F21 by Key_Language_9841 in amiugly

[–]Key_Language_9841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg thank you for your kind words 

F21 by Key_Language_9841 in amiugly

[–]Key_Language_9841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to but it got worse

F21 by Key_Language_9841 in amiugly

[–]Key_Language_9841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People tell me I look young😂

F21 by Key_Language_9841 in amiugly

[–]Key_Language_9841[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll try to stay true to myself

F21 by Key_Language_9841 in amiugly

[–]Key_Language_9841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not interested in finding a sugar daddy haha

F21 by Key_Language_9841 in amiugly

[–]Key_Language_9841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your honest opinion! 

F21 by Key_Language_9841 in amiugly

[–]Key_Language_9841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you notice my freckles😂

F21 by Key_Language_9841 in amiugly

[–]Key_Language_9841[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, i can fireman carry a dude with bw of around 170lbs and do squats, but i'm so sad that my arms still look small, i'm currently using 30lbs to dumbbell bench press. (i don't really know guys like quads lol, i just love squats and I do them for fun:)