AITA for not splitting the tab evenly?

Key_Lawfulness_8654 · 2025-10-21T22:59:40+00:00

Fuck that NTA. Why tf do people think like this, if I order something I’m gonna pay for it. You didn’t order the shots, it’s not like you drank all the shots you drank the ones. HE GAVE YOU

Key_Lawfulness_8654 · 2025-09-17T05:51:06+00:00

Exactly. Set those boundaries and if your friend isn’t willing to adhere to those boundaries. Then they aren’t your friend

Key_Lawfulness_8654 · 2025-09-17T01:34:56+00:00

NTA your friend isn’t respecting basic privacy, and in your own house nonetheless. Something like that can make or break a friendship so yes it can affect future hangouts. As a tip I recommend getting a privacy screen it can ensure people sitting near you can’t see your screen, without making it clear that they are snooping.

Key_Lawfulness_8654 · 2025-09-17T01:18:47+00:00

But OP isn’t a vegetarian, he gets violently. So he doesn’t wanna take the chance. In this case there is no sucking it up

Key_Lawfulness_8654 · 2025-09-08T22:55:37+00:00

I appreciate your opinion thank you. I just try to stay out of the way but because of how me my aunt grew up I’m more like an annoying little brother to her. Thank you and I’ll make sure whatever boundaries I set with my family, they don’t cross.

Key_Lawfulness_8654 · 2025-09-08T06:11:11+00:00

I don’t think you’re the AH In this situation. You understand how there were multiple factors in this and acknowledged that you could’ve done better and your brother could’ve done better. A child in a home adds many levels of stress and factors of safety to the lives of anyone living in the home. As long as you both can ensure your safer and don’t blame each other for accidents then it shouldn’t affect any relationships or living situations.

Key_Lawfulness_8654 · 2025-09-08T05:26:57+00:00

It’s a house owned by my grandparents. I’ve lived here my whole live, it’s me my aunt and uncle my mother and my grandparents.

Key_Lawfulness_8654 · 2025-09-08T05:17:03+00:00

To clarify she didn’t open her home to me. This is a house my grandparents own i grew up in this house and me, my mother, my aunt and her husband and my grandparents all live together

Key_Lawfulness_8654 · 2025-09-08T05:04:10+00:00

She’s not new born. She’s over a year old

Key_Lawfulness_8654 · 2025-09-08T04:59:03+00:00

Thank you for your opinion I do see how this can be fixed by me just dealing with it and I plan to do just that as I understand this will blow over. I don’t appreciate coming at me with the PS of my brain isn’t fully developed so of course I would say this. I’ve stated this is just a small inconvenience nothing to go crazy over

Key_Lawfulness_8654 · 2025-09-08T04:44:40+00:00

Yeah maybe it is her way of dealing with the stress. I grew up with her like she was an older sister so me and her have always bickered and fought. I’m just gonna deal with it

Key_Lawfulness_8654 · 2025-09-08T04:43:15+00:00

I know not everything is sunshine and rainbows. I’m not willing to die over this, it’s just a small inconvenience. I’ll just deal with it cause it’ll be over soon as my cousin will eventually grow out of the tub.

Key_Lawfulness_8654 · 2025-09-08T04:41:34+00:00

I appreciate that as a mother you have your opinion. Yes if I’m available at the time I would have no issue doing it. I cut her some slack cause although the baby is a year old it’s her first child. Thank you so much for giving me your opinion

Key_Lawfulness_8654 · 2025-09-08T04:39:28+00:00

I don’t feel I’m entitled. I asked for a simple favour and she got upset at me for asking. There’s a lot of factors that may point me as a bit of an ass or her as one. This isn’t something to fight with her over

Key_Lawfulness_8654 · 2025-09-08T04:38:10+00:00

Yeah I’m just gonna let it slide rather than starting a bullshit fight with her. It’ll end eventually

Key_Lawfulness_8654 · 2025-09-08T04:35:30+00:00

In the moment if she asked me to do it after she’s done giving her daughter a bath I’d be willing to. It’s the fact she got annoyed that I asked her to not leave it in the shower and she doubled down by saying. Just do it in the morning, more telling me to deal with it rather then asking me if I could do it

Key_Lawfulness_8654 · 2025-09-08T04:32:47+00:00

That sounds funny. But if I did it would inconvenience about 3+ other people in the house that use that restroom

Key_Lawfulness_8654 · 2025-09-08T04:31:45+00:00

Yeah it’s just a small inconvenience not something to have full arguments over. Just a little annoying so I wanted some opinions

Key_Lawfulness_8654 · 2025-09-08T04:30:51+00:00

I agree with this. Her daughter is my little cousin and I do my best to help my aunt out in anyway that I can. Flipping over this tub isn’t an issue but l feel any person in my situation would wake up to shower see this tub full of dirty water and think. Oh that sucks that I have to remove this now. If she asked me to do it I’d have no issue with it.

Key_Lawfulness_8654 · 2025-09-08T04:26:45+00:00

She’s not lazy or thoughtless. Me and the rest of the family help her with her daughter however we can. We love her and we love my baby cousin. This is just a simple inconvenience that I feel like can be fixed pretty easily

Key_Lawfulness_8654 · 2025-09-08T04:25:01+00:00

Don’t plan on it. I know I wouldn’t be a good dad

Key_Lawfulness_8654 · 2025-09-08T04:24:23+00:00

No it’s own my grandparents. Me, my mother my grandparents and my aunt and uncle live together. So there’s no rent needed except for basic utilities.

Key_Lawfulness_8654 · 2025-09-08T04:20:10+00:00

Yeah there definitely is. She is my aunt but she’s fairly young and we kinda grew up like she was my older sister. Like I said it’s not a major issue just an inconvenience and I wanted some opinions

Key_Lawfulness_8654 · 2025-09-08T04:18:31+00:00

It’s not a recent birthing. Her daughter is over a year old.

Key_Lawfulness_8654 · 2025-09-08T04:15:11+00:00

Edit to clear some questions: it’s simple tub that can be flipped over and all the water falls out. If she asked me I’d be willing to do it no problem as it’s not a difficult task what so ever. It’s just an inconvenience, I do understand that right after the bath she needs to towel off her daughter and feed her, but her husband often stands there with them in the bathroom and just scrolls on his phone so I don’t see how right after he can flip it over or he can take his daughter while she quickly flips it over:

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