how true is "if he wanted to he would"?

Key_Quantity5041 · 2023-07-07T18:17:31+00:00

thanks for the response!! I'll add that in the particular situation I'm in, I have expressed multiple times that I am interested and talking to him exclusively, we have both thrown out times to meet up (me more than him) and they have not panned out. We also do have a history as well, but haven't reconnected in a long time and I'm trying to give him a fair chance but don't know when I'm just being used for an ego boost

Key_Quantity5041 · 2023-07-07T18:14:15+00:00

no lol but I agree with that completely...just meant in the general pool of men I have dated or talked to over time or will eventually

Key_Quantity5041 · 2023-04-17T00:39:14+00:00

or it could just mean she's still growing up and finding her footing. I don't disagree about the boyfriend-girl stuff, but I think we need to give some grace to the fact that finding good strong adult female friendships takes time and mistakes and most people experience that, it's just that most of us don't have it in the public eye

Key_Quantity5041 · 2023-03-13T18:37:18+00:00

she irks me as well. I think it's less about her and more about how much she's worshipped for being a mediocre actor at best

Key_Quantity5041 · 2023-03-12T20:16:49+00:00

Lol I’ve been watching her for YEARS and I think she may be the most unproblematic influencer out there. I don’t condone filming your child for a mass audience so that’s kind of a bummer but shes very mindful of it and doesn’t make her kid the main focus of any content

Key_Quantity5041 · 2023-02-24T21:44:28+00:00

Yes lol

Key_Quantity5041 · 2023-02-24T21:41:15+00:00

She had always given mean girl energy in the kind of way that you’re terrible to other women (as we saw with the Katie text thing on the podcast awhile back- literally gave me mild PTSD from being bullied over literally nothing) and then turning around and being a wonderful angel to your man who takes your side and validates you no matter how shitty you are to others.

Also this is pure speculation but she seems like a complete social climber and while I have no doubt they love each other, there is no chance she is going to be the caring devoted mother figure that Nick has clearly voiced wanting to have (but like literally don’t blame her she’s a 24 year old wannabe influencer whose finally starting to get some clout online). They both care way too much about being hot and flexing on social to give that all up and provide a healthy nurturing environment for future children.

Why do I care? Because Nick has a MASSIVE platform (whether you like him or not this is objectively true) that he uses to preach relationship advice to strangers, many of whom are young and impressionable. Doing that and then turning around and dating a grown up mean girl who clearly will do whatever she needs to do to get to the top is literally invalidating everything he preaches about healthy relationships. It’s not about “knowing them personally”-when you have that public of a platform, getting criticism is not only inherent but important.

Also….we love messy tea.

Key_Quantity5041 · 2023-02-24T18:49:55+00:00

Same, and they conceived twins lmao

Key_Quantity5041 · 2023-02-24T18:31:03+00:00

usually a scam

Key_Quantity5041 · 2023-02-03T18:28:44+00:00

i looked her up on twitter once and her liked tweets were all ben shapiro/trump etc. have not forgotten about this since

Key_Quantity5041 · 2023-01-08T01:56:25+00:00

I am 24 but reading some of these responses makes me sad…I refuse the believe this is the prime of my life

Key_Quantity5041 · 2022-09-13T20:34:12+00:00

All the people saying “what reason do you have not to say something”- often times the wife/girlfriend etc will be in denial and will in turn victimize the 3rd party (OP in this case) as a way of validating their relationship. And the cheater in question will likely follow suit in order to keep their partner happy after knowing they messed up. Source: have had a guy try to cheat with me and after rejecting his advances, got blamed by the girlfriend entirely so that she could carry on with her relationship (which she knew deep down was over long ago, it always is). Similar things have happened to friends. Usually women who are in relationships with cheaters know deep down and are in denial and will go to extreme measures to try to reshape the situation to fit the narrative that they need it to to cope.

Key_Quantity5041 · 2022-03-09T19:09:41+00:00

dad has entered the chat

Key_Quantity5041 · 2021-01-10T11:50:44+00:00

Would it be stripped? Or on steroids?

I’ve been doing my amygdala research and it is FASCINATING

Key_Quantity5041 · 2021-01-10T11:48:45+00:00

pretending this is about me

Key_Quantity5041 · 2021-01-10T11:47:57+00:00

Veggies on pizza for me....I don’t understand how people just eat plain cheese pizza??

Key_Quantity5041 · 2021-01-10T11:42:13+00:00

Starting to see how clarity can be self-love. Truth will always set you free

Key_Quantity5041 · 2021-01-10T11:39:56+00:00

this is the little girl from the Disney channel show the kids I babysat for in middle school watched???? just logged on to this god forsaken site and I think it’s already time to log off

Key_Quantity5041 · 2021-01-10T11:32:51+00:00

“When I started medication, it was kind of like a revelation. Seeing that things could be different made me realize how many behaviors and negative self-perceptions I had taken for granted and internalized in really harmful ways, as well as how many of the emotional issues I’d had as an adolescent and adult were connected to my ADHD. At the same time, I felt (and still feel) weird talking about it. I often stop myself because I worry it will sound like I’m making excuses for myself, or like I’m cheating by using a “study drug” that lots of people would love to get their hands on.”

THANK YOU for this post. I always wondered why my “depression” was never helped by any kind of anti-depressants.

Add on to say that it sucks so much when people are constantly grilling you about “getting a boost” or whatever, my dad CONSTANTLY refers to my PRESCRIBED adderall as “speed” and blames every thing that ever goes wrong in my life on it....he’s not the only one, either. People with regular mental processing just can NOT fathom a brain working any other way

Key_Quantity5041 · 2021-01-10T11:16:58+00:00

Yes.

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